I was extremely sheltered growing up, now I have no luck in relationships, any advice?

My mother was very religious and my dad was very old fashioned. It seems that every guy that I date turns out to be a jerk. Everyone says I'm too nice... I don't know how to be... Please helpI was extremely sheltered growing up, now I have no luck in relationships, any advice?
Hi.You can never be too nice.Treat people how you would like to be treated and it will all turn out right in the end.


You will eventually meet someone that is worthy of you as there are not of ';nice'; people left.


I wouldn't say that i had a sheltered upbringing but i would say that i am a nice guy,i treat everyone with respect and a have a fantastic fiance and a beautiful baby girl.Eventually you will meet someone that deserves you.Don't worry you don't need any help...it WILL happenI was extremely sheltered growing up, now I have no luck in relationships, any advice?
Sometimes you rreally just got to be mean about things. If someone upsets you, its cool to say ';hey, listen ********, I dont friggin like you being a ********, ********';
That's crazy! I have the same problem! I can get into relationships, that's not hard. But it's maintaining them once they've met my parents that kind of screws it up. I don't know. I figure if they find out, what can they do? I'm an adult, and I like who I like. It's hard, and difficult. But if you want to ever be happy, then persue a relationship for yourself...not for your parents!
I am 20 years old and i was sheltered also i moved out when i was 18 and i had trouble at first too but then i talk to the guys and told them how i felt and they sometimes straitened up and some of them did not just don't think it is you it is really them I hope the best luck for you
Same thing with me except it wasn't religious or old fashioned parents I was just sheltered. I didn't even think about boys until I was like 17 while all of the other girls around me had been through a bunch of ex boyfriends and had already had sex. Only difference with me is I'm not nice anymore, I've been shaken out of that when it comes to guys I tend to treat them the way they treat me. Now of course they don't like it, but nobody can say about me ';D(me) is his fool or his doormat';





Don't rush into anything as far as relationships or dating someone you don't think is right just to say you ';have somebody'; that's where you run the risk of becoming a doormat. I know a few women like that and they are so miserable. If you think a guy is a jerk, then there is a 99% chance he is one it's that little thing called women's intuition always follow it!


You are probably a nice woman and some men sniff that out like a bloodhound so they try to play games with you or see how far you can be pushed. Keep being nice but at the same time you must let guys know that you aren't a push over.
jerks are jerks no matter how sheltered you are. find someone who ';completes'; you.
try answering question %26amp; answers on this forum %26amp; make a list of stupid ones. you;ll soon run out of paper%26amp; know that there are more jerks in the world than you could possibly imagine. within a few days you'll cozy up to the guys who you originally thought were jerks per se, quid pro quo, merci senorita.