Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?

okay.


i've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month and a week. just to outline it, he's 17 and i'm 14. our birthday's are both in november. my parents know we're together, and they love him.





anyways. we used to always argue and fight, like it was pretty much a daily thing, no lie. but the other night, we got into a big one, and he told me that ';if he hurts me again, then he wants me to break up with me.'; i didnt agree to this, but i didnt disagree. ever since that night, there has been a little tension. we havent been in any big arguments or fights, maybe just minor ones that we got over. i feel like he's kind of pulling away from me, and he doesnt say 'i love you' nearly as much as he used to .. usually, it's just 'love you' now. i dont know if it means his feelings are changed, but it bothers me knowing that he wont say ';i love you.'; but when we're together, everything is like perfectly fine. but when we're not, it's all weird. [continued]Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
Wow that was long. You really sound like you like this guy. But the two of you only been going out for a month. It also sounds like a lot of fighting. You do know that you will have lots of boyfriends by the time you are 18, why are you worring? One month is not a relationship. Thats just a fling.


If things dont work out dont worry, Theres lots more.Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
sounds like me. well im not gonna say that it's not gonna work out because it will believe me. I would jusst give him his space for a while. Don't talk about certain things that make him uncomfortable or things he really doesn't want to talk about. About the 'love you'; I love you thing its really all the same. my b/f says it all the time. and we are inseperable. You shouldn't doubt that he loves you because judging by your story it sounds like he is crazy for you. just give him time and u will see how things will change for the better. Another thing don't call him 24/7 limit ur calls to like 2 times a week. or something like that. just a thought
At that age, its a biiig age difference. 17 y/o guys who date 14 y/o girls are usually either:





1. Desperate. They can't find a girl around their age, so they resort to younger ones.





2. Perverts. They want to use you because they think you're young %26amp; gullible. They will say ANYTHING to get into your pants, so to speak. ';Baby I love you and I'd never do anything to hurt you, you know that.';... ';I don't think you love me like you used to, you have to prove your love to me by ____.';