around 6 months blah blah blah might happen
around a year big fights might happen lol i guess graph out average relationships and struggles throughout the months and stuff that happens around certain times in a relationship it would be helpful. thanksRelationships and advice?
people cant tell your future. you wil see for it yourself.
whatever happens in a relationship happens. everyone has a different experience hahaRelationships and advice?
When you are in a relationship, the first couple of months or so is called the ';honeymoon stage';. You have that exciting, new feeling of dating, everything seems so perfect. You are still kind of getting to know each other %26amp; having fun.
After about 3, 4, or so months, you start getting used to each other. You are still having fun, but little fights happen now and then..you start to spend more time at each other's places rather than going to movies %26amp; dinners a lot.
6 months or so later...you are basically a member of the other's family. You spend a lot of time at the other's house. You'll have fights, but you know well enough that you two can talk through it and move on.
After the year, its all natural. You'll bicker, argue, and whatever...It blows over and you move on. When you have been together for that long, you can trust that the other will always be there no matter what. You get so comfortable with each other that you dont have to worry about whether or not you'll break up if you have a stupid fight.
Hope this helps... lol
My wife of 27 years and I have never had a fight. By that I mean where we raise our voices above normal conversational levels, storm out of the room, slam a door, physically assault the other, etc.
We have had maybe three situations where we had to kind of make an appointment with each other to sit down in private and talk through some very difficult issues where we obviously didn't agree with each other.
We've had maybe a dozen situations where one of us said something that unintentionally hurt the other person and I had to apologize. :-)
We've had some conversations that have lasted for 2-3 days where we really work through a hard issue.
There's no reason that a relationship has to be characterized by fighting and splitting up and getting back together. In fact, I would say that is a mark of immaturity in one or both people. That is, if you don't know how to resolve problems effectively, you're probably not really grown-up enough to be in a relationship.
Being in a relationship means putting the other person first and being mature enough not to have to have your way all the time. And when you're hurting, it's being able to go to the other person and tell them straight up. And when your partner comes to you like that, it's being willing to drop everything and sit down and work it out.
If you have to raise your voice to be heard, then one or both of you is acting childishly. It might be best to back off and grow up a bit.
well, they say that 3 months is the longest someone can pretend or try to be something that they are not. So I guess she said that to you because this is the time when things start to surface in a relationship. People feel more confortable at that time, and sometimes that's when trouble starts if they were not really being themselves.
I have always believed that in a relationship, the longer your in the relationship the more the arguments come because you start to learn more things about that person. And thats when you start to discovering the flaws.
Everyone is there own person. I don't know how your cousin said that is how relationships go. She hasn't met every couple. Be yourself, dont be a statistic
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