Saturday, July 31, 2010

Relationship troubles can anyone give me some advice?

Having trust issues. Okay so ive been with my partner for 3 months now. He has had a troubled past but i didn't judge him because i liked him so much. Well here is whats going on. Recently he has been having a lot of problems and moved in with me. Everything was fine but im starting to think he has been lying to me about his life. Stuff like where he used to live, where he works and things of that nature. Ive introduced him to my family, but i have never met his family, Ive only met a couple of his closest friends. Now that we are living together a lot of things aren't adding up to the stories about his life that he has told me. He also has a eating disorder that i just recently discovered. I think this guy is going thru a lot but I don't know what to do or how to confront the situation without it being a problem that leads us to separate. What can i do in this situation. I do i get to the bottom of things and make this work? Any advice is welcome.Relationship troubles can anyone give me some advice?
It is very hard to build a successful relationship when the very foundation is built with lies. If you are finding that little things don't add up, you are most likely going to find many many more.





I will offer only simple advice because I believe whole heatedly that it is the best advice...move on. There are other opportunities out there.





Honesty is key in a relationship...without that, what do you really have.





Sorry this is happening...but good luck to you!Relationship troubles can anyone give me some advice?
3 months is a little to soon to be living with your bf. Usuaslly by now you are just starting to find out these things. I would just sit him and down and spill the beans about both of your faults. If you start with something about you, it might make him feel more comfortable about telling all and also wont seem like you are cornering him.

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