I need advice for being in my first relationship!! Please help!?

Well this guy who said he was gonna ask me out is a junior and i am a freshman. He is 17 and I am 15. Since he will be my first boyfriend i am wondering how should i be with him (of course i will be myself). What are some things not to do in a first relationship with an older guy. And what are some things i should do. Also are there things i should notice about him since he is older? Any other advice would be great! Thanks to those who can help!





Also do you think it is wrong for a 17 year old and a 15 year old to be


going out?





How should I be with him at school?I need advice for being in my first relationship!! Please help!?
Its not wrong for a 15 and 17 year old to be dating as long as some boundaries are set. Don't feel pressured to have sex with him, or give him blows jobs or hand jobs at any time. The problem with older guys is that they often push younger girls into those kinds of things. The truth is that it will not make him Like or Love you more. It might make him think he can just use you.


In school i would say you two can walk together and talk and flirt but i would stay away from holding hands or kissing until he makes the first move. Since he is older and more established in the school you should probably let him make the first move on those types of things, and if hes right for you, he will.


Also find out if he's into drinking or any drugs. If thats not something you're into then maybe you should ask him if he would be willing to spend his saturday with you rather than at some highschool party. If he says no then maybe hes not such a good guy.


Also the number one thing guys hate is when girls always say ';idk'; when they ask then what they want to do. So think of something fun to do ahead of time like renting a movie, going to a theater, bowling, or even just baking sweets or cooking food. he'll appreciate the creativity and it will make you stand out from other ';boring'; girls.





Good luck! and have fun!





-CI need advice for being in my first relationship!! Please help!?
i personally dont think its wrong, IF you are mentally challenged for a serious relationship.


for instance, how experienced is he? and how experienced are you?


he might have more maturity in this than you and you need to be careful not to exaggerate on how far youve gone with anyone cause this will just give him a green flag to go go go :P


but, you also shouldnt be immature, like extremely jealous unless you know something is going down between him and another girl. this will make him think youre too young :\


you need to be open with him, and not by all shy about things, any things. be honest.
I believe that a 15 yr old going out with a 17 yr old should be cautious. He may be a great guy, but since he is older he may try to... pressure you to do things that you may not want to do. He will be more experienced than you in many aspects. Stand your ground, and do not be taken advantage of. Boyfriends CAN be great, and this is an exciting time in your life! But as I said, but careful of influence, and do not move too fast.


I am happy for you!!!
First and foremost, take things slow...you got your whole life ahead of you.





Secondly, be open and honest with him at all times; the good ones will respond well to this, the bad ones, well, who cares right? they ARE the bad ones for a reason.





Third, don't do anything you don't want to do, and let him know thats how you roll.





And finally, chances are this guy isn't going to be the one, so don't let promises of ';Oh Baby, this or that'; sway you; Promises are only as good as the one making them.





Beyond that, good luck. This is an exciting time for you, have fun, but be safe too ok?
You're first relationship is the most important. Try not to get super-attached... it will end eventually. If he has dated before he has more experience than you so let him take control, unless he does something you do not like, then make sure you speak up about it!





It is normal for a 17 year old to date a 15 year old.





It depends on both you and him. Some people like everybody to know, some like to keep it to themselves.
When I was 15 I got asked out by a 17 year old. I thought I was so cool because he was ';popular'; and had had a lot of girlfriends. (turns out he still had a lot of girlfriends while we were dating.) He ended up pressuring me into having sex with him after only two weeks of dating then broke up with me. Be Careful please... don't hang out with him alone, don't get too attached, and don't let your guard down too soon. I can assure you that you will regret it
there are no wrong answers.





just do everything you do and you'll be fine.





its not that bad 2 year difference





and dont be all kiss kiss at school


sometimes is good but not like makeoutt in front of everyonee all the timee
you should be close with him but you should watch out since hes older than you and your new to the relationships you should try and take it slow make sure he doesnt take advantage of you
The age different is not much compare to Demi Moore and Kutcher. Just watch him and don't be quick to give in to his proposals. You both are still young.
BE YOURSELF;


LET HIM WALK YOU TO CLASS ONCE IN A WHILE








DONT:


LET HIM TALK YOU INTO SEX IF YOU ARE NOT READY
hes gonna wanna stick his car in your garage pretty fast