Need some help/advice relationships.?

Well me and this guy are ';Talking'; and I really like him a whole lot, but I know he is such a ';bad Boy'; and im a total good girl. I'm 15 have never even gotten a B on my report card B4 and take advanced class( going in the 10th and taking 11th grade classes), he is 17 going into 11th grade this fall, but takes some 10th grade classes. I'm the good girl who hasn't skipped class without the teacher writing me a note to leave class, and he skips 5th period at least 2-3 times a week, and hangs out in my 5th period(which is in the bandroom, and he's a drummer in high school band) He also smokes and is a drummer in a real band and guitarist, and is just everything I know I should stay away from, but that makes me want him more. I guess im wondering if you guys think it will work out, and I'm usually the girl talking about the guys who dont have there life together or aren't really going far in life. I usually like future doctors or something(im gonna be a doc). Is this just a phase for me or what should i stay away or try to go out with him and maybe get the whole ';I like bad boy thing'; outta my system? I mean im so confused. Also, although he is a bad boy, he is very respectful to adults and stuff, like no parents/Adults know what a bad boy he really is. especially when him and his best friends(old drummers who have graduated) get together.Need some help/advice relationships.?
Mostly likely its a phase. Or you could have real feelings for him. Go for it if you want to but don't let him pressure you into things you don't want to do.Need some help/advice relationships.?
I think that if you start hanging out with him that you'll start trying things.. Like smoking. When I got with my ex he used to do a lot of things around me. It's not his fault that I like started doing them, but he definitely influenced me and made me curious. Don't be surprised if you do something that's not really you.. Being with a boy that's into drugs or something can be difficult when you're not into drugs because you're worrying about them and their well-being. Go out with him, see how he is, then see if he's right for you.
it might last you never know, opposites attract. There's nothin wrong with likin a bad boy, heck most of the boyfriends i had either smoked, drinked or got into fight all the time or a combination of the three. So, don't be confused go out with him if you really like him.
maybe u should give it a chance. u never know, it could turn out to b something good. just b careful, good luck ;)





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Hi. You are 15. Its usual at this age.


i remember my situation when i was of your age. That time it was hard to control myself. But now i feel i did it right.
i would say go for it.


just make sure you stay who you are. don't get into any bad stuff.





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dnt date him i didn't have 2 read it all to know. he smokes trust me bad bad bad idea. then you'll be hooked and its HORRIBLE hope the best
Blah blah blah blah he's gay and you're a gullible girl.
sounds like he just wants to get laid
Well if you like him a lot sometimes you must listen to your heart instead of your mind. Opposites attracts sometimes. And if it doens't work out you can say at least you tried. Good luck my answer is that you go out with him but is your choice.





Edit: Well like everyone else said don't feel pressure to do things you won't like it. So at least you know you don't like smoking, and he's drug-free. So go for it. I know how you feel bad boys have sexy enigma.
I'm just where you are, planning on being a doctor, all A's, all Advance AP classes, but I try to stay away from people that are ';bad'; because of the way other would see me and the influence they would have. However, it is always important to experiance life to its full potential so I see no harm in talking or hanging with him as long as he doesn't affect who you are or want to become (this could be difficult though, fair warning)