I need advice about relationships.. (highschool)?

So i'm still in highschool, but i'm in a pretty great relationship with my boyfriend. we spend every day we have together and were both very happy. we get along perfectly and wouldnt want anything to change. but now i dont know how long i should wait till we have sex. i want to wait.. but at the same time i dont. help?!I need advice about relationships.. (highschool)?
I am in the same position. Talk to him/her about it, let him/her know where you stand and see what the response is. Sex is a very beautiful thing and if you do do it, just make sure you will not regret it in the futureI need advice about relationships.. (highschool)?
thats a big decision.


you need to be completely ready.


know in your heart that hes the right one, and trust your instincts.


im not going to give you the ';wait till marriage'; bull, because noone listens to that, and id be a hypocrite.


but you need to know for sure that hes right, or atleast the one you want to give such a special gift to.


wait until you know for sure, i cant stress that enough.





also think about consequences.


responsibilities,


this isnt a little girl choice, this is an adult choice.


just think about it.
Sex will change everything. You dont sound ready. Don't do it. I've yet to meet a girl who has fond feelings for her 1st. Keep that in mind. They rushed into it when they werent ready and the guy turned into an A-hole.
You will know when you are ready, sex doesnt always change things but sometimes it does but most of the time its for the better! Just go with your heart!
Dear Allie,





Do you want me to ask you to wait? Do you want me to remind you that you are saving yourself for your Life Partner? Well I am.





The choice of giving yourself to your boyfriend will be a decision you will make that will remain with you the rest of your life.





Dear Allie, what ever choice you make, just be sure, and don't get cornered to make the decision on-the-spot.





Good luck with your decision.





Anthony
Sex will change your relationship completely, either it'll get a lot better or a lot worse...wait until you are completely ready. Your still youngthere'ses no need to rush. Once you lose your virginity, you cant get it back.....
You should only do it when you are ready to do it. And also make sure your boyfriend wants to do it to. You should also consider how long you two have been dating.
ask him wat he wants and share ur feelings
Then dont wait the more u restrict the more its gana be harder to wait so just go with the flow
I have the same problem you do.


It just depends if your comfortable, and he is comfortable around each other and are both ready to do that in your next step in your relationship.


You might want to talk about it first with your partner, thats what i did with my boyfriend and it helped a lot. and if your not ready to talk about that with him, that i dont think you are ready.


if you do decide to do that, then make sure you are safe (:
i am in the same situation butt i think you should wait cause something can go wrong and i guess it also depends on how long you've been dating too cause i'd be worried to gett pregnant so i would wait like i am;)
The question you have to ask yourself here is this: Is this something you want to do now, or do you want to wait until you have a husband? What it really comes down to (and this is from experience) is that you will eventually have to deal with the fact that you might not marry this man. Doesn't sound too horrible in some cases, but what happens if you don't? Are you going to be ok for the rest of your life, especially when you have a husband, knowing that someone came before him? In some cases, it doesn't matter, in others, it can make or break a relationship. On another side of the cube is that sex can complicate relationships, and there is always, even if protected, the chance that you could have a baby. You need to decide if you and your boyfriend are mentally mature enough to handle ALL the risks involved and the emotional change you WILL under go. If this is something you're going to do, you need to sit down, discuss all the options that might come out of it, and what you would do in a worst case scenario. Then, finally, the true advice. If you have any doubts, any partial feeling that you might want to wait, that is usually your hearts way of telling you you're not ready yet.


sounds like a lot for a high schooler to think about doesn't it? But if you really want to do this, and I can understand if you do, it is always best to be prepared.
DON'T DO IT!





There are way too many consequences. Believe me, I've got a friend that knows that very well from experience. If he really loves you, he will wait for you. I don't care if he's the hottest guy on the planet, he's not worth screwing up your life in high school for.

the bees