This guy and I have declared ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend. We were pretty much together before that but now we are more serious, I guess. We are 15. This is my first real boyfriend, I like him a lot and he likes me a lot. I have a couple questions...
1. How do I tell my parents, they're really protective.
2. I don't feel comfortable going to his house when it's just going to be us and not a group of friends. How do I handle that and what does a couple do at ones house...besides, you know.
3. We haven't kissed yet. Should I make the first move?
4. How do I keep my relationships with my friends just as strong? Also, my best friend is a guy too and my boyfriend always gets mad and jealous. My best friend has to ask permission for us to go places and he gets mad if I answer my best friend's texts before his. My best friend is like my big brother, I love him to death, and we always tell eachother 'I love you!';, when do I have to quit that now that I have a boyfrie nd?I need some advice, I've got some simple relationship questions? HELP! Thank you so much!?
1. you should have a talk with your parents telling them how much you guys are close and how happy he makes you. ( best chance is if he's there too. moral support)
2. well if his parents are there you should be ok I guess, they hang out and watch movies, get to know eachother.
3. for the kiss you should wait for the perfect moment, you' ll know when.
4. first of all : being friends with a guy is always going to be hard when you have a boyfriend. make sure you are not attracted to your friend cause that would mess up everything, and reasure your boyfriend that he is just your friend, nothing more. he will not have any reason to be jealous. No do not quit that friendship, you just have to be carefull and reasure him, it's not his falut, he doesn't want to lose you he probobly really cares about you.I need some advice, I've got some simple relationship questions? HELP! Thank you so much!?
1. break it to them easily preferably without him there.
2. there is all kinds of things to do. watch a movie. play a board game. just talk and get to know eachother.
3. you will know when to kiss him. trust me. there is a right moment.
4. your boyfriend needs to respect that you and your friend are just friends. he should be able to trust you with that.
I can only answer one of your questions, not having a boyfriend myself, not ever. One thing you can do at one's house is watch movies, or study dates
Just a couple of comments that may be worth exactly what you pay for them.
Be very wary when a guy starts acting as though you are committed to him when you are, in fact, just beginning a relationship. Having a boy friend does not make you more mature, wise, complete, nor anything else.
Do NOT go to his house if you two will be alone. Being serious does not make him behave properly and a guy who is jealous (he is jealous when he gets mad because you are in contact with your best friend) is not to be trusted. Your boy friend will probably require you to not be in relationship with your best friend in order to keep him in your life. Most of the time, jealous guys get more jealous, not less. Jealousy will also probably lead him to criticize your friends and family--that is meant to isolate you. It is not good.
well frist is first sit down wif ur mom and dad and talk to them tell them that they should trust really do they not have a reason not to tell them to unlock the chains holdin u down
then go to his house because he wants alone time wif u or just plan a night out together and if u want him to make the first move then never ever do it around friends cause they can ruin the moment for u and him btw u can make the first move just alone no friends
well break it to ur bf that its just a friend and nothin more tell him that u love him wif all ur heart and that if he loves you then he should trust you not to ever ever break up wif him for ur best friend no you dont have to quit ur bf is jus jealous but tell him that ur best friend is just a best friend and that he is more than hes ur gardian ur angel and love for life and that will never change =]
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