Best Friend Relationships?? Advice anyone??

Yea so i have been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and even tho i didnt see her as a possibility at first after a couple of months she really grew on me and now im totally in love with her. Ever since ive met her she has been in a relationship but we have discoussed the issue together plenty of times. She has recently broke up with her significant other but im finding out that one of our mutual friends also is interested in her. Ive stood by her and literrarly went thru hell and back for her as best friends always thinking that she might go out with me. She said she could see her self with me but she was already in a relationship. Anyone have a similar problem? Im deadlocked and im not sure what to do? What to ask from her? or what to think of my friend who also likes her?Best Friend Relationships?? Advice anyone??
in this situation, its best to let her make the first move. if you make a move on her with her being fresh out a relationship, she might think you are just trying to take advantage of her in an emotional state AND your friend might take it as backstabbing.... i think you should just take things in stride and just keep being a friend to her. she will decide what she wants to do with her love life and if it includes you, she will let you know.Best Friend Relationships?? Advice anyone??
NUMBER ONE RULE:


if your best friends this ';relationship'; you want could ruin your friendship forever.





NUMBER TWO:


if you are positive that this relationship will work out between you two then talk to her about it. if it ends up working then everything should work out from there.
I have a friend who had the same problem. They tell each other everything and they were the best of friend. At the time, the girl already has a boyfriend but the relationship is on the rock. When they broke up, my friend told her his feelings for her but she said she only treats him as best friend nothing more than that. The friendship is now jeopardize. They are now trying to avoid each other... If you ask me, the ending might not be necessarily the same for you and your friend.. but you won't know until you make your feelings known to her.. about your friend who also likes her, you don't have to worry too much.. if she's meant for you.. she'll be yours forever..
I have been thru the same thing and i was the girl!


If you have stood by her like you say you have she will choose you. I knew this guy for 1 year and i had a bf then that ended and i went out with him and we are still going strong. To like someone is not enough.. you have to be friends first so you are already a leg up on your other friend.
my ex bf - we broke up due to family/friends interference and we just couldnt handle it, but we still liked each other. he moved on and got with my best friend...i love them both, but its so hard to accept it....heres my thoughts, do what you can as a really good friend and what happens or is supposed to happen will happen...end of my story, we're together now...even closer actually
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