Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need some advice/opinions on a past/present relationship...please!?

About 3 months ago I guy I was seeing for 2 months and I split up...it was a very weird split up, it was wrong how it happened and things were said that shouldn't have been so it ended quite bitter. A month or so after we split up he texted me to ask me if I was still mad at him, I texted him back and said no...I had gotten over how thing ended, so I meant it. 2 weeks after that he texted me to say Happy birthday and so on and carried on a convo until he had to go in to work. Ok, no problem. 3 weeks ago I ran into him for the first time since we'd split up and things were great. We started talking again, no problem. After a while we were alone talking and he kept saying to me he wishes I would have told him how I felt about him while we were together because his gf now (his ex while we were together) wouldn't have been an issue and things would be very different now. He said he loved being with me and still does but she's ';got'; him...I said that's great I hope I have someone who ';gets'; me and he said no, it's not a good way. If I go down, she does too and vice versa, I have to do what she tells me...he kept askin if I was happy and this and that so I just kept smiling, not knowing what to say. Last week I happened to run into him again and he asked me to go with him on his harley for a ride, we ended up at two bars and got drunk. I asked him if he loved her and replied, hesitantly, with yea. I was upset, but stayed and ended up leaving shortly after. Apparently I had asked him to meet me at the bar later on last weekend (i had a lot to drink when we were out) and he ended up showing up, like I had asked him to. We talked normal again, no problem but then he started to get real weird. So when I left he left too and I called him right away and said why are you bein weird he told me to meet him somewhere, so I did. Long story short he said he had to be home at a certain time to ';make things right'; with his gf, but told me to meet him tonight at the bar....I went, but he didn't show up, at least not while I was there. I don't understand I've heard he's playin me which could def be true but I just have a gut feeling about him and can't change how I feel about him...please any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciatedI need some advice/opinions on a past/present relationship...please!?
well dear,your guy already has a problem from the start,..theres nothing wrong with you as far as i can see.what bothers me most is that because of that feelings you have for him you let him play with you and its not right.stop hurting yourself,trust your instincts,trust yourself to what it say.but dont let him fool you around.teach him to respect you coz thats what you deserveI need some advice/opinions on a past/present relationship...please!?
The guy has a girlfriend and is flaky.....no mystery there. Stay if you like drama, leave him alone if you have respect for yourself and find some one better.
ive been in this situation before and i truely think the best thing to do is to move on... because i kept tryin and tryin to make things work with my ex while he had a qirlfriend but he loved her to much and i was jus that qirl on the side when he wuld fight with this girlfriend. you dont want that. you seem like a bright girl... you can find way better someone who will make you happyy and not lead you on,





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