Christians in relationships: Christian advice needed?

Is it reasonable for Christians to save themselves for marriage even if they've been dating for 10 years? The reason they haven't gotten married is because they're working towards their future and are not financially ready. My man and I have been trying very hard to just wait. Sometimes we cross the line going a bit far. I'm very much in love with him that its hard not to wanna be close. I just feel like I'm a bad person in God's eyes and I'm probably going to hell. That is my biggest sin.Christians in relationships: Christian advice needed?
Matt 6-34





Take therefore no thought for the morrow for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.Christians in relationships: Christian advice needed?
If you are saved you will not go to hell.





There should be no sex before marriage and no living togather. Ten years is a while to not have married. Is the debt that big that you can not live togather as married and not make it?





Sex is called fornication outside of marriage.





1Th 4:3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:





1Co 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
No your not a bad person. You just are dealing with temptation. God wants you to wait. Yes, Your forgiven, but there is a reason why he said wait. It will be a glorious day for you both if you do. Believe me. Try not to get yourself in anymore hot water. Keep yourself busy and not so alone that things will happen. Sometimes if we wait till we are financially ready , that will always be. No one is yet there. I would say to marry asap if this is the person they know for their life. They can be at peace and start their life finally. My husband and I were not totally finacially ready before we got married. But we knew it was time. Marry and be at peace you can always work out the finances as you start your life. Blessings.
';I'm probably going to hell.';


No, I highly doubt that you will for that.... Remember GOD knows what your limits are and he will not give you things that you cannot handle. Try not to engage in things that will lead to sex. If the both of you truly love one another then maybe you may want to consider marriage. Marriage is the WORD of GOD, and he believes that sexual activity should be between a husband and wife. I would Pray that he gives you the strength to resist temptation and so that you can keep his word.
First of all, we are all sinners in the eyes of the Lord but by having a relationship with Christ, we are made righteous to our God. For all fall short of the glory of God...............





Second, Trust that God will take care of your financial affairs. If the two of you are truly in love, get married. Invite God into your life and ask for and allow him to guide you.





Pray and read the bible. Minimum 15 minutes each day. Try to pray for the needs of others ahead of your own wher possible. Get to really know Jesus.





You are forgiven for your sins through the precious blood of Jesus. God Loves You!





God Bless
If you're self-supporting, then you're financially ready. You certainly are physically ready, so just get married already and quit torturing yourselves!
if you have only messed up, thats fine. no big deal. however, its still appropriate to wait in Gods eyes.
I say, it is time to get married....unless you have been dating since you were 8years old.
you know whats right,why would ask strangers to make you feel better for doing what you know is contrary to G-D's law
No one's going to buy the cow if they're getting the milk for free, honey.
If it doesn't hurt anybody, it's not immoral. As simple as that.