I need an advice in trying to save my relationship of 11 months?

My ex broke up with me 2 days ago, she told me that she don't feel for me that love that she felt before, i asked her if she still feel something for me, she said yes, but no like before, she told me that she wanted some time by herself, we used to be around almost 24/7, but we never did the same thing all over again, i really love her so much, and i don't know what to do, today i told her that i love her so much, and that when she find out that she took the wrong decision, to tell me right away, but she told me that she want sometime by herself, and maybe later we could talk, my fear is that she may forget about me, i asked her that we could be friends, and keep going to places, but she said not now!


please help me in what should i do, advices, anything please, i really but really love her!I need an advice in trying to save my relationship of 11 months?
Breaking up is so hard to do especially when you love someone so much the way you do... Sometimes though, a relationship really affects someone's life and it is very easy to start planning your life around that relationship or around your partner. This can be dangerous as if then the partners break up one is left with just pieces of a broken puzzle and it is really hard to build up a life again without the partner. I have just come out of a relationship where we were together all the time so I understand. It is really hard to deal with the emptiness that person leaves in our lives once they leave. It may not be as bad as you think it is - it might be purely a fact that she needs some time away from you to be able to think straight and understand what she really wants from life or whether she sees a future with you. I am going through exactly the same thing. I know this is not the thing you want to hear right now and quite frankly it's not what I want to hear either but the only way to win her back is to give her the space she is asking of you. Genuinely try to leave her alone. She will come back to you if she really loves you but in her own time. Just wait for her for as long as you can but at the same time concentrate on building your own life again so if she doesn't come back then you can start healing yourself. The more you pressure someone in a relationship the more they will move away! Hope this helps and good luck!





I would appreciate feedback on my question pleaase as I am also trying to save a relationship:


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArGayPgGxpDan9RlawDKWK_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081028162007AA0XyP6I need an advice in trying to save my relationship of 11 months?
It sounds to me like she is trying to tell you as nicely as possible that it is over and she does not love you anymore.





I feel for you as you are suffering but you need to let go. Your wish to remain friends may be possible but not now and if you try to force the issue it will just drive her completely away.






She has probably lost that ';in love'; feeling (which happens to EVERY couple) and feels confused because she does LOVE you just not the passion that was there before. This is normal, and is a sign of a relationship maturing. It is just a matter of whether or not she will realize it. Give her time and space. It might be hard, but if you keep presuring her it will make her decide you are not the one for her. Good luck.
If you keep on pondering on the feeling that you will be able to win her back by hanging around her then she may pull out away from you even further. So I guess you should do the following - stop seing her or spending 24/7 with her for a couple of days. See whats her reaction. After not seeing each other for 10-12 days, for example, see if she has any concerns on her face or if she asks you - hey, how are you, not been around? If she does, then make her feel that you are upset and having a hard time losing her. If she doesnt care, then just back off and start a new date with a new girl - cause you deserve the best.
Give her time to herself. I know that's not what you want, but trust me, if you keep hounding her she will never come back and think you are smothering her. It may take a week, two, maybe 3, for her to decide for sure if she loves you enough to make it work. Maybe she just needs a break to figure out what she really wants. It's easy to get caught up in a relationship if you're together all the time. It is healthy to break for a while and if you both love each other enough, things will work out. And sometimes it's hard, but sometimes it doesn't end up like you want it to. Better to find out now then later on if you got married. I don't know how old you are, but you should just give her time and don't hound her. Good luck.