Need advice on a girl in a relationship...?

I met this great girl 6 months ago and she has had a bf of 4yrs. She is attractive and pretty much has everything I could possibly want from a woman except she is taken. We really hit it off when we met and she even told me that I was ';the first guy she had noticed in 4yrs';. Well she was having some issues with the bf when we met and would come hang out with me,text/call me ALL the time and while nothing would go on she was flirty at times and would always get upset if I didnt reply right away. We talked so much about everything that we became pretty close... Well one night a few months ago she kissed me and all the feelings I had buried for her exploded into the open and I fell for her HARD! We did sleep together recently and now im torn up! She is happy with him again and hes trying harder now too so theres no chance of it ending. We still talk alot and shes all I think about!! Ive tried dating others,and I always end up thinking about her so what do I do?Need advice on a girl in a relationship...?
This girl is thinking about no one but herself, why should YOU do otherwise?


She had no consideration for her boyfriend's feelings and now that she has what she wants she has no consideration for yours. You need to start thinking ';I love her, but I love me more'; and prevent yourself from getting hurt a second time...this girl is only looking out for herself, and while she may have feelings for you, she will never give her boyfriend up. Don't wait around, hold your head up high and as hard as it may seem, show on the outside that you're fine....these types of girls aren't worth waiting around for, when/if she breaks up she will run back to you and if he wants her back again she will go back to him--don't settle for this kind of behavior from ANYONE...I know it's a difficult thing to hear but you need to look out for yourself, because she's obviously not going to...there will be other girls, don't expect to fall in love easily, you wont...but one day you will find the right girl, who won't hurt you no matter what, and then you will look back on this question with only nostalgia and no other feeling. Best of luck, email me if you need anything elseNeed advice on a girl in a relationship...?
dont be a homewrecker and remember 2nd place is never good. you seem like a nice guy so find a girl of your own she wasnt the one for u she was just using u to get back at her boyfriend she was mad at but she isnt gonna leave him you have to get over it and move on even though it sounds harsh its true!
dont ruin a relationship of 4 years they obviously care about eachother, and she had feelings for you but it didnt work out.





keep talking and maybe she will realise you are better, give it time