Sunday, July 25, 2010

';Secret'; relationship advices needed! Both guys and girls. PLEASE!?

Okay, me and this guy are having a ';secret'; relationship .. It's only because his mom doesn't like me, because she considers me as a ';****'; even though I'm not. But she gets along just fine with the class's biggest **** who sleeps with everyone ? His mom's never met me, but she doesn't like me .. And I don't know what to do with her .. But me and this guy really like each other, and we have so much history and .. so on .. I'm rather in love with him, than just liking him. I'd literally do anything for him. He hasn't told any of his friends, or even his brother, whom he is very close to. And the only reason he hasn't told anyone is because he really wants this to work. But the problem is that we can't really talk at school or anything. Because even if he says one word to me, everyone around us will look at us and say, ';are you guys dating again?'; And they say that because we've dated so many times in the past. But anyways, I don't have a phone so I can't text him. And today at school during lunch, he said he was going to ';casually'; sit beside me and actually talk to me and stuff. But he never did, I guess because of his friends. He's rather really popular in the school, and he has a lot of friends, so .. I understand. But I just want this to work .. REALLY. What should I do? And do you think this will work?';Secret'; relationship advices needed! Both guys and girls. PLEASE!?
keep goiing out with him


my sis is keeping her relationshiip a secret, i just know cuz i saw them together( the guys i my bros best friend) and so yah


and they are working out really well and its so cute and romantic


dont worry


it wil all be ok


best of luck';Secret'; relationship advices needed! Both guys and girls. PLEASE!?
Ok, I am staying 10 minutes after work just to reply to this. I am 19...my gf is 16. When we met, we were 18 and 15. I loved that girl the first day I met her. We have been together a year now and we have been through so much to make us work...it takes dedication and ALLOT of energy and care but it can absolutely work. When I first started talking to my gf, her parents wouldn't let her go out with any boy, even if they were 15. Not to mention 18. So, the first 4-5 months of our relationship was us sneaking out at night and going to parks, restaurants, parking lots, etc...and we were absolutely crazy about each other. We kept it a secret from almost everyone except both of our best friends. We realized that with work/school other responsibilities, and just because its healthy, (lol), we needed to see eachother openly and with people knowing. So yes, her parents both flipped out and HATED the idea with a passion. Now that it has been a year and both of her parents have seen how I am, they both love me to death and want me to eventually marry her. (Which we talk about all the time :D). I have established very good relationships with them both...now, to more relate to your story, my mother HATED my gf from the day she found out about us just because she was 16 and not of the same religion. Without even meeting her. I wont lie, she has not improved her perspective that much and is still quite a stubborn b*tch when it comes to me and my gf. But we are doing famously!!! We are crazy in love and are talking about our life plans, and preparing for it. It was a little weird for a while with everyone randomly finding out and people ';not approving'; of eachother and whatever, but we are very happy. I know things will work out with you and this guy, it's just gotta be worth it to you both and you'll reap your rewards. :D
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