Saturday, July 31, 2010

Would living in a one bedroom apartment effect my mother and I relationship? and advices?

I live in a one bedroom apartment bedroom apartment with my mom.


Sometime I sleep on the couch if she is not working that night and is using the bedroom.


Ever since we moved in things gotten harder between us. In the beginning it was ok, then we got into crazy fights every week, to atleast one fight every day and now she is saying things to me that she never said to me before. Such as:





';No... No. You're crazy, you need help';


btw I NEVER called my mom crazy ever





she use to say ';quiet'; or an ear piercing ';sh';


but now she yells ';shut up'; to me.


this would be when we're watching a movie and she always talk. I ask her ';kindly'; that if she can not talk.


It just when my sister and I were little she would get angry if she ever hears that word anywhere.





and


';I need at least a month away from you';





I don't know. She tells me I am not appreciating and I love fighting her but that's not true. Well to me it seems. I mean I always try to avoid fighting her, I try to make thing better. From getting A's (I use to get D's and C's) to get into a good college all the way to little things in the apartment. But no matter what we just fight.


Am I being selfish? My mom constantly buy things and I do appreciate them, atleast I think I do. If I didn't I would never do the things I said before. She said that's one of the big issues. I didn't know what else to do. So when she was giving me 20 bucks a few hours ago I told her I didn't want it. I didn't see the point. To me it seems like she just going to say I never appreciate the stuff she gets me anyways. She can't say that if I don't accept them anymore.


I don't know, now that I said it it sounds like a bad idea.


At first I thought it's cause my sister left and I had to deal with our mom 100%. But someone said ';one room? no wonder you get into constant fights with your mom';





Is their any advice you can share? to make things a bit easier for my mom. I would always hear people say ';get good grades that's all'; but that isn't enough anymore. She's saying things that wants me to say ';I hate you'; or ';you don't know me you don't understand'; which is ridiculous... and I haven't said those things yet. I just want the fighting to stop...Would living in a one bedroom apartment effect my mother and I relationship? and advices?
MOVE OUT !!!

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