I am currently in a 7 year relationship with my boyfriend. I have been with since I was 18. He treats me like a Queen %26amp; I cannot fault him for anything major really. He is perfect for my heart %26amp; soul. He has done SO MUCH for me. We have talked about marriage but I have told him that I'm not ready. I am also a bit pessimistic about marriage in general.
PROBLEM: I want to experience MORE to life i.e. travel..but not with him. Have I outgrown him? Will I be stupid, ungrateful %26amp; blind if I was to breakup with him?
In my heart I kinda know that there is no one out there more perfect for me than him..BUT am I only thinking this because I haven't been any other guy besides him? I cannot ask for a 'break' as I have done so in the past %26amp; it didn't go too well.
Maybe I should just move away %26amp; then our 'distant relationship' will just drift apart..Advice needed for a seven year relationship?
If you're not ready for marriage, then definitely DO NOT get married! It really sounds like you want out of the relationship and are just looking for excuses to end it. If you're not happy, or you want more, cut him loose. It will hurt at first, but you'll be glad you did in the end. And it will hurt him, too, but the longer you wait, the worse it will be for him.Advice needed for a seven year relationship?
It sounds like your relationship started at such a young age,that I agree that you probably feel you missed too much.If he's such a wonderful guy,you may lose him....I suggest you take a week or so without him,%26amp; determine how important it is to you to pursue solo travel.
yeah let him go. there are so much wonderfull things outhere besides beeing maried and have some kids.... You got balls You want adventure in your life and you will not be happy until you will get it...He needs to be sacrificed ...preaty said but he will be fine with a lower woman. You definetly outgrown him. Have a wonderful life gal...fortune favors the bold
Let this guy go already so you can add the loss of this relationship to your growing list of regrets.
PS. No matter what you do in life there will always be regrets.
You're not ready to marry. You've already stated that you want to travel.....and not with him. Strongly consider why the break didnt go well in the past.
It sounds to me like you love him but you are not IN LOVE with him sad it seems you have outgrown him and for the best I would let go.
Hope it goes ok x
Buy some Gold Bond Cream for that 7 yr itch, lol
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