I need some advice, I want to end a relationship but it's very hard, I don't know if I'm doing the right thing?

Here's the deal





I've been dating this girl for 2 years. She's been living here with me. In that 2 years time, she hasn't had a job. I've been helping her and she's not even my wife. She tells me she's looking, but she never makes any contacts and I tell her she needs to look harder, it's been 2 years. I know the Economy is bad. So I told her, she could maybe drop to something below her level of education. She says no, she went to college, and she's not going to be working at Target or Wal Mart.





I can pay the bills and everything, but I would really like some extra income coming in.





When I told her I think we should break up, she ask me, was it because she didn't have a job. I told her, that was one of the reasons.





Honestly, we been arguing a lot lately, and her not having a job is one of the reasons, maybe if she had a job, we wouldn't argue so much.





Secondly, she asked me was it because of her weight, and I'm like no, you weighed the same when I met you, and I happen to like big women. But she thinks those two factors are the reason I don't want her, because she doesn't have a job, and her weight, and that makes me feel guilty. I do care about her, and I don't want to hurt her. But:





What's a guy suppose to do?I need some advice, I want to end a relationship but it's very hard, I don't know if I'm doing the right thing?
Finding a job right now can be difficult, however....If she says she won't attempt to look for a job that pays less to help you out with the bills that is messed up. And she's been unemployed for 2 years? She could at least found something.





You love her, but I think she's taking advantage of a Good thing. I could be wrong, just stay on here and give her a little more time.I need some advice, I want to end a relationship but it's very hard, I don't know if I'm doing the right thing?
Wow, you need to end this relationship NOW. This girl is making a fool out of you. I'd never tolerate someone not contributing to expenses, and she's just lazy and snobbish if she thinks working at a Target is beneath her. Honestly, is this the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with AND have children with? Speaking of... you better run before she manages to trap you by getting pregnant. I don't mean to be harsh - but I can't believe you're putting up with this just because you don't want to hurt her. She's the one hurting you!! Tell her tonight - tell her that you'll always be a friend, but that your relationship is over and she MUST move out by November 17th, or you will. Stick with that plan no matter how many tears or promises she makes. And whatever you do, don't have sex with her!!