Pregnant and need advice on staying or leaving a relationship?

im 6months pregnant with my first child at 35yrs old. i didnt think i could get pregnant so i was very shocked and happy! the father whom im with is 41yrs old and weve been together on and off since i was 19. weve decided to give it another try especially for the baby. we love each other so much but its so hard for us to get along for more than 2 to 3 days.my patience is a little better then his when it comes to us irritating one another. hes a scorpio so he hates to be told no and speaks his mind hurtful r not. which hes been really trying to work on. the biggest problem is were always in the house when were not at work hes a home body and it hurts my feelings when sme of my other girlfriends go out with their man. im attractive so i just dont get it im so depressed and its draining please help with some wisdomPregnant and need advice on staying or leaving a relationship?
Are you always unhappy or do you feel like it could be some pregnancy hormones? If you have been together for that long, you should really try to work on your relationship, but in all honesty you are an adult and you should do what is best for you and your child and if that means not being with him anymore, than so be it.Pregnant and need advice on staying or leaving a relationship?
You really need to talk to him about all of this. It's not healthy for you to be under so much stress while pregnant. Do you think maybe he's a little nervous because of the baby?


Try to explain to him that now the 2 of you should do nice things together as much as possible because when that little one gets here, it's not going to be so easy!





Good luck!
for one you need to estimate the good days with the bad. if you have more bad days then good, i would leave. even though he is the father, you need to think what is best for you and your child. you cant be stressing out. pregnancy is meant to be beautiful and wonderful, so, if you cant enjoy it cause you are worrying, then leave. never let a man be the cause of your depression. its not worth it. you can love him and want him in the babys life, but you can do it and be happy. maybe you guys would make better friends then lovers. you can even be friends with benefits. under separate roofs though. whatever you choose, think wisely and use your gut feelings.