Need advice. I feel ';stuck'; in my relationship?

Okay well i have known this guy for about 6 years now, we have always been friends but eventually started to like each other. So we started dating back in July. Everything was going good because we had a solid mutual connection, but the only thing is is that he is very conservative towards me. What i mean is, he doesn't really kiss me often and when we do kiss it is very short and it is only to say hello or goodbye, when we walk he doesn't take my hand or walk close to me, he wont put his arm around me or act very ';couple-ish';. When we are together, weather alone or among friends, we act as if we are friends and nothing more. This bothers me because i want to feel the affection that you are suppose to feel in a relationship and because of his obedient actions i feel less attracted to him. He always tells me im beautiful and hot and he truly believes that we will be together for a long while, but he never acts on what he says. Thinking back i wish i never got into this relationship, but i feel as if im in too deep and as if i will really hurt him if i break it off. Also i am getting really close with his friends now and i wouldn't want to loose them too. Sorry if this is long but im so confused as to what i should do...do you think it is best if i talk to him about it? also, is there a reason why he holds of kissing me???





We are both 16, if that matters.Need advice. I feel ';stuck'; in my relationship?
It sounds like he is just unsure how to treat you like a girlfriend. It probably has nothing to do with you, or your relationship, it's just simply that you have been friends for SIX years and have only been dating 3 months or so. The friend time overrides the dating time. How to get him out of this habit, You make the first moves. Not only will he loves this because guys usually like an enthusiastic girlfriend, but he will probably get the hint and start kissing you more. When you kiss him, don't let him stop, keep kissing. When your hanging out just randomly kiss him on the cheek or neck. When your with friends take his hand and put it on your upper thigh, or rub his leg. Just be more aggressive he'll follow up most likely.Need advice. I feel ';stuck'; in my relationship?
eeww, iHate the Dodgers, but anyway, some people dont feel comfortable holding hands, hugging, etc in public. Maybe you should try to hold his hand and make a move, but if you truely dont want to be in a relationship, just say ';iThink we should take some time away from each other';, you dont have to break up with him
if he's ur friend talk to him he might change. I'm in a similar situation cause i'm dating my best friends younger sister...... and i also live with him.... which makes things extremely acquard for all 3 of us. but we all had a talk and things are more ';normal';. we kiss in front of him and everything, but i'm a good guy, thier family loves me and i love her, and she loves me.
Confront him on it.





It's the only thing to do at this point.





Either that, or you make him feel like it's ok to show more affection by kissing his cheek or grabbing his hand. Be assertive! This will go further if you can open him up to it. It can lead to longer and spontanious kisses, etc.
my bf does just the same!!


idk if its that he dont like me like that,


or if he just is shy or dont wanna be first to do somethin,


or what, but weve talked it over now, and its kool but were just gonna see what happens.


maybe youll just be slow with it.
Well have you talked to him? And he sounds like a nice guy to me. Some guys can't keep their hands to themselves. Whenever you have issues in your relationship, talk to your partner first, there is no reason why u have to consult random people.
You already said it. He is just more conservative than you are . Seems like you are not really suited to each other.
your relationship is platonic you are more like brother and sister.
I had a great female friend for over a year. People would always call us brother and sister because we looked alike. It was an awkward transformation when we started dating. It took time, but eventually got serious and lasted almost two years. He might not have experience with dating? Maybe you need a guy with more confidence. You know the answers to these questions. My guess is you will end up dating one of his friends.
You definitely need to talk to him. Communication is a must in any relationship. Aside from that, I'm also not quite sure what you mean about him not being touchy-feely with you. (Does he not want to do anything with you completely until you guys are more officially into the relationship? Or is it that he says he will kiss you, do more things with/to you, etc., but then backs out on that?) If he's shy, since you guys have known each other for quite a while, then you have to understand that. It's weird when friends that go way back finally get together and have a relationship, since couples usually tend to know each other for a few weeks, months before they commit to each other. But if you honestly feel like this relationship isn't going anywhere, talk to him and tell him exactly what you're telling us right now. He's also your best friend; you have to have communication between you guys.
first off y'all are 16. you got your whole lives ahead of you. if you have talked to him about this and he hasn't changed or doesn't see why this upsets you then obviously you shouldn't be miserable cause you dont wanna hurt him or loose his friends. sweety theres more out there and other guys that will give you what it is that you want. i suggest talking to him and see how that goes. base your decision on his body language and response. good luck!