Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do you have any advice for a guy who is in a polygamist relationship(s)?

Plant a flower garden? It will save you money on those doghouse days.





hahahaa!





Nah seriously, I will admit a bias, don't know your culture, religion etc. Are you supposed to be doing this? If not you are probably dealing with all the ramifications of living in sin...which to put it more simply is doing things you know you aren't allowed to do, and having the guilties about it.





Plus it is illegal in the US. So you have to keep it a secret from the govt as well. Morals and conscience aside, it just sucks having to keep secrets with the govt. It means you are in a perpetual lie, and you have to keep a lot more track of what you say to whom. Eventually re: the govt alone (if you are in the US), you will have to deal with Social Security and you already have to deal with IRS. God only knows how many other officials you have to deal with.





And if you are hiding it from any of your spouses, then it just compounds all your problems, not fair to anyone including you.





If you need a clean slate, I would tell them all what's going on, then see who is left. It may be (your choice or any of the women) that you are alone after making your confession...which is actually great. Ground zero. You can get them all annulled (weddings under fraudulent circumstances such as already being married are nullified, because it never should have happened) divorce the first one you married (because that is a legit contract) and then start saving your child support pennies. If anyone else comes along, take them one at a time.





I really can't help but urge you to pare down, if not for moral reasons, for practical ones. Life is complicated enough with one spouse.





If you are asking about how to manage them all because you want to juggle better, I wouldn't have the first clue.Do you have any advice for a guy who is in a polygamist relationship(s)?
Any advice that he asks for.Do you have any advice for a guy who is in a polygamist relationship(s)?
Watch HBO's Big Love
Start makin some coin of them hoochies before ya go broke playa. Cha Ching!!!!
Welcome to the club, or move to Dubai (or Utah)? If I was only brave enough to admit that 15 years ago I'd be the proud husband of two fine women, and father of several children, myself...
I'm feeling sorry for you. LOL
Go by days of the week. This girl on this day and another on this day and so on.
meaning ur dating numerous girls?





pick one





come clean to her





pray she cares about u enough to stay with u





and if not, tough luck....try sticking with one person.
Put the toilet seat down.





Learn how to do home-handyman tasks asap.
enjoy (i hope you get a disease)
can offer no advice as I personally would not put up with this type of marriage

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