HELP! relationships advice, what's wrong with me?

please don't judge.





i'm 22, i spent the past weekend at the beach with my sister who's 18 and her friends who are around teh same age and my older brother who's 25 and his friends.





well one of my sister's acquaittances, this guy who was 18 years old took a liking to me and serenaded me all night with his guitar and try to put his moves on me. obviously i turned him down. i'm 22 and turning 23 this year and he's 18 so there is a 5 year gap between us.





i've never had a relationship before and i've never ever had a guy be that straightforward when pursuing me. i mean i'm 22 and still a virgin lol





but yeah is it weird that even though i would never hook up with a guy that's 5 years my junior it felt so good to be pursued like that? i mean i kind of miss it (i mean who doesn't love to be doted on and given attention)





is it also sad that i find myself regretting my choices. my ultimate fear is that i will always be alone.. but then my senses kick in and tell me that i'm just being overly emotional and stupid.





i'm so afraid that i will fall for whatever guy dotes on me like that not because i really like him but because ill enjoy being given that attention so much that i'll end up confusing my feelings.





i know this was a really long rant so if you read this whole thing, thanks a lot... i had a great summer and amazing times, but i still feel sad and lonely so much =(





and if there is any advice you can give i would appreciate it.HELP! relationships advice, what's wrong with me?
dude im telling you now go for what makes you happy if this guy made you happy give it a chance it dosent mean you have to go lose your virginity but hell if it might make you happy in the long run i say its a chance worth taking other then that i say live your life to the fullest while your single and dont worry about finding someone cause the more you look the harder its going to be lay back enjoy life and the right one will fall in your arms trust me ...and listening to jack johnson dosnt hurt either =] that what i did and it work for me i use to be the same way i would get sad and depressed cause i thought no one would want to be with me cause everyone i dated or tryed to date failed miserably so i say just relax let fate take its course =]HELP! relationships advice, what's wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with you. You're right to wait for someone you love. Just remember to keep you're mind open to people of all ages (within legality) because love comes in all forms. Just wait for Mr. Right. ^^
Stop being gay.
I think you're just normal. Everyone loves to be the object of someone's desires.





Perhaps you should give that guy a chance. My parents have a 4 year gap and they'll we have been married for 19 years in a couple of days.





I try and go fro someone my age or older to but when you get to your 20's I don't think it really matters.