Need advice on my 2 year broken relationship!?

I was with this guy for almost 2 years. We broke up back in July. In the last month we have started seeing each other again. He tells me he loves me and talks about a future with me but he wont make things official with me. He either says he wants me to get financially stable or he needs to concentrate on his career before we could get back together. In the past couple weeks he seems distant. He hasn't made much an effort to see me and when he says he will stop by he doesn't show. I have pulled away as well and leave it up to him to contact me for the fact that I don't want to be that girl that seems desperate or annoying. He contacts me everyday via text message or calls but its like Im his buddy not someone he claims he wants to be with. When I confront him on his actions and ask him to just be real and let me go if its not what he wants anymore he just gets mad and tells me to shut my mouth because if he didn't want me he would tell me. I know in my heart what I want and I know Im not getting it out of this relationship. Im finding myself lonely and hurt. So yes I know most advice will be to move on and find someone else, but easier said then done. What do you think is going through his head? Is it just a excuse? Is there someone else? How do I address this to him and help him understand me without him getting mad and thinking Im trippin out? I just want happiness and I want it with him!Need advice on my 2 year broken relationship!?
Men dont liked to get dumped. They like to be the dumpers. Seize the reigns baby girl. Kick that user to the curb. You are nobody's standby





Yes Meep. Pay attention to his actions. Forget the words.Need advice on my 2 year broken relationship!?
Honestly, there probably is someone else and you're his ';back up plan';, if you will.





He's rude to you and he ignores your needs and doesn't even care about your feelings. His crass treatment of you should tell you all you need to know.





Men talk a good game but it's not the words you should be paying attention to - it's his actions.





His actions do not match his words in this case. I.e. He says he cares about you and wants to be together, but he acts like a jerk and treats you more like a booty call. This all points to the fact that you shouldn't waste any more time on him than you already have.





I know it sounds harsh and it's not what you wanted to hear - but just get rid of him. Erase him from your life, completely. He's not worth keeping around as a friend. He's more like garbage that has been stinking up your life for at least two years and it's high time you threw him out.
There was a reason why both of you broke up... Stick to that reason. It's obviously not working out and he obviously doesn't even seem interested. Don't let him drag you along. You already dragged along for 2 years. And I'm sure both of you did love each other very much. And you want him in your future and you can't picture yourself without him. I was in the same situation. 2 years later... we broke up. And I kept that in mind.. we weren't working out for a reason. So I stayed strong (and yes it was hard and yes I cried many nights), but guess what? I realized I'm better off without him. It took time, but I've found my knight in shining armor. And it was lots of hard work... And I spent many nights thinking and wondering and crying... It's worth it though. I can't imagine why I spent so much time on my ex... Or so many tears. I found happiness. One door closes, and another opens. We just have to be strong enough to leave that door behind and open a new one.

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