Advice for our FU(KED UP relationship?

I have known this guy for almost a year. We have never had an exclusive relationship because he lives two hours away. In my opinion he has never pursued me correctly, he never wants to do anything with me but sit in his aprartment, but then again, I never really ask him to do anything. The only time we really see each other is when he asks me to come over and I give in once in awhile. Most of the time I don't because I consider it to be just a booty call . The thing is...because of this I am usually really bitchy to him, I can be downright mean sometimes and I openly tell him about other guys I am seeing and shoot down most of his half assed efforts to see me. Despite this...he still keeps in touch. A couple months ago he was really making an effort to be with me and I stopped returning his calls for two weeks because he had called me while he was drunk a couple weeks before. I am almost NEVER sweet or nice to him, and I am almost NEVER the first one to initiate contac. in turn he puts up an AzS-hole defense mechanism. This past Friday, trying to be nice I sent him a text asking if he wanted to go out later. He texted back ';maybe'; that was the end of that and I did not contact him again the rest of the night. Later at 1am he starts calling and texting me wanting me to come over. Since I nEVEr answer his booty calls I said ';Haha...yeah right'; told him that I was at a party and didn't go. I have been calling him for the past couple of days and no answer. I know a lot of people are going to say give up he only wants a booty call, but I feel deep down that I am in the wrong too. Also I have heard that deep down all any guy really wants from a woman is sex but he will do what is required to get it....hence the relationship. Advice for our FU(KED UP relationship?
Work it, make it, do it,


Makes us longer, better, faster, STRONGER!


Work it harder make it better,


Do it faster makes us stronger,


More than ever, hour after


Hour work is never over


longer, better, faster, STRONGER! Advice for our FU(KED UP relationship?
i think it is a lost cause all togrther just quit texting and calling him then you wont have to be upset all the time make up your own mind and do something to better yourself so that you wont so angry because what happens with him all the time
Not all guys want sex. Believe it or not a lot of guys just want to find that one special girl that they can spend the rest of their lives with.





Soooo perhaps this guy just wants sex, but don't hate.
whats so bad about him calling to be w. you.


sounds like yur being a jerk.





and yeah, i agree w. the person a few answers under me. not all guys want sex. dont hate.
Forget him. Doesnt sound like either of you care that much.
Well you already know the answer to your own question. You are right he only wants you for sex. Any man who calls a woman after midnight on the weekend wants nothing but some ';cuchie';. He is not interested in you for a relationship. He only keeps contact because he knows he can get some whenever. Now my question to you is........what do you want? Step away from him. He means you no good.
Dear Jenny:





You're RIGHT !!


You're in a Dysfunctional Relationship !!





Do you like all this DRAMA?


Seek out someone else!


Focus on EMPATHY!


Develope your ';Emotional-Intelligence'; !!


Do you like acting ';bit*ch*y'; ?





Life is way too short to tolerate this B*S !


Find another lover~ ASAP!


Nurture a Positive/Productive Relationship.





Make any sense?





Good Luck Jenny~


Have FUN~


Date Many~


Gain Positive Experiences!
Ok this is interesting, first of all you are both wrong.


There is no need for the hostility or the bitchy attitudes, form eaither of you. You both need to talk, talking is the Most Important Key in a realtionship. Don't push him away, the result of that is him pushing back. If you ignore his calls he will ignore yours.


Catch my drift?


Second of all, Stop thinking that he is using you as a booty call. You can't read his mind, If he wants you to come over that doesn't necessarily mean he wants sex from you. And besides if he was using you as a booty call, after you being mean to him he wouldn't have still kept in touch! Think about that....


Third of all, not all guys want sex out of a girl. The men that do are down right pigs. He could be different, and before you go making assumptions talk to him, ask him is this all you think i am to you?


Talk to him...





Don't leave the words that need to be spoken, unsaid.


Don't leave the emotions that need to be let out, kept in.


And don't leave the quetions that need to be answered, unasked!





Try it! If you want more advice contact me ok? Good luck!