Girls. I need your advice. 10 points for the best answer? what did I do wrong in this relationship?

Sigh*. This girl and I were together for 7 months. until she moved.


Things were good because we talked to each other online and on the phone. like every freakin day.





But, I expected the worst. i knew that eventually she would fall for some other guy at school. cuz, since I leave in a different country and she moved to the main land. I know for a fact, that alot of guys out there just want sex. Sex sex sex. Most guys (in their) teens (not all) want sex. (Im kinda like that, But I can control my sex drive, unlike other men i know.





I showed her that I really do care for her. I've done so much sht for her.


Spend 2 days without going to sleep just talking to her, send her love letters. I even sent her a box the other day just to show how much I miss her.





Then all of a sudden, she fcking tells me she likes someone at school.


The worst I have expected has finally arrived and I didnt know what to do.





The box I sent her the other day, was a alil brown bear with a heart necklace around it. Inside was a letter.


I told her not to open it, and to wait for me to call her on the phone so I can hear her get happy.


Im just gonna tell her that she can either send it back, and just dnt wait for me to call her and just open it whenever you please.





What did I do wrong here? Wtf did I do wrong to deserve this sht?


Please give some serious answers please. No bull. 10 pnts to best answer.Girls. I need your advice. 10 points for the best answer? what did I do wrong in this relationship?
Don't bother asking her for the box back, one day she might open it and realise how much you cared about her. And she'll realise this ten times more after shes been messed around.


Not saying that she'll get messed around but just in case.





As for you, you didn't do anything wrong. You did the best you could in the relationship and theres not many guys like that :)





Somebody else will come along in time and appreciate your efforts much more.Girls. I need your advice. 10 points for the best answer? what did I do wrong in this relationship?
You did nothing wrong.


she was selfish and if she really loved you then she would stick by your side no matter what.
You did nothing wrong ok? You just showed the love and care you had for her. as for her, I think she decided to move on. That's not your fault either. The fact that she moved isn't your fault. Things like this happen either for the best or for the worst. I think you should move on so you can stop feeling like this. Its better to have loved than to never have loved at all. Cheer up ok?
Did you guys discuss your relationship before she moved? Does she think that you are no longer a couple? It's confusing, yes, but you need to have a serious talk with her and find out what the status of your relationship. It doesn't sound like she thinks you are a couple anymore and that her move severed any ties or obligations to you. She must think you are just friends now, since you live so far away. The only way to get this straight is to talk to her. Good luck
she's they type of girl that needs a physical connection. she isnt to happy about the distance and since guys are closer she's more into that.


and you werent there and you knew it was coming, its obvious it was so dont dwell on it. get over a girl that doesnt care about anything and will most likely get pregnant within a year or two *no offense
truthfully, you did nothing wrong. So stop worrying about that.





The problem about the long distance relationship is that it requires dedication from both sides to make it work. You did your part, she didn't. At least she didn't play along with you and told you straight out. It will hurt you, that's quite obvious already, but it's up to you to do what you will, take it with pride. Say ok, there's no point being angry with her. That's life, that's why people say, sh*t happens.





If you want to still be her friend, let her know, but remember to keep your distance (ie: don't send her the love letters, don't continuously keep trying to initiate the conversation with her). Offer your support but in the meantime, I would suggest you try to move on despite however much you think it's impossible at this point in time.