I need some advice on relationships?

okay so I love my boyfriend so much, we have been together for 3 years now. Things are going great, but I have a problem. My ex came back into town and we have been talking for the last couple of days (as friends) he was making me fill so good though, the way he was talking to me gives me butterflys ( i think its because I have not flirted in sol long) we talked for like 8 hours stright ( i have not done that with someone in years) he is not attractive to me, and I dont like his life style,(we dont have a future togehter) but he makes me fill, gosh I am so confused. ( i think I just want to play! ) I dont want to make a huge mistake. I find myself wanting to kiss him, but i dont want to **** things up with my boyfriend.(I love him so I am not saying I would rather be with my ex) but what if something happens sometimes you cant help yourself and **** happens. Maby I should stop talking to him so that i dont get in a bad situation, but I like talking to him! HELP PLEASE!I need some advice on relationships?
Its understandable to have these exciting feelings especially if you are in a relationship for a while. everyone likes to flirt its exciting and butterfly feelings are the best temptation is everywhere and i bet ur craving it a lot after 3 yrs w/the same person.





it seems like you still love ur bf and the feelings w/the ex is just pure lust then its not worth it. get urself out of that situation. stop talking to him. or at least dont put urself in situations where u know u'll become weak. plus u said he's not attracted to u anymore.





sure you like talking to ur ex (or any other guy thats hot and interesting right?) these feelings are normal everyone has that temptation. its ok to flirt and feel good about urself and let the other person make u feel good. its validation. but in the end before you make any decision u have to reflect it back on ur current relationship and weight it out. more often you have the best w/u.





however, this may not apply but if you dont see forever w/ur current bf and ur still weak w/ temptations and you see a future w/ur ex then you should tell ur bf and get back w/ur ex legitly. besides you're young dont have to stay forever w/someone if ur doubtful. but no matter what dont cheat! it will come back and bite you in the butt!