Please, I need advice with relationships/dating-I wanna date interracial and my fam don't like it(READ BELOW)

I am a 22yr old white male. I have been attracted to and still am attracted to other races, mainly African American. I am actually more attracted to black girls than I am white girls in a way. I haven't ever made a move because my family disapproves of it (they think white should be with white etc) and it would cause a ton of drama. I have been fighting this since I was like 16 though and I am about to graduate in May (07) from college and move out and away to another town at least like an hour away. The other day I met this girl and I wanna go with her, but right now I would have to on the low because of my family. Once I am gone, they will just have to deal with what I like and that's their problem. My question is should I pursue dating black girls right now even though I would have to keep it on the low or should I just wait until I graduate and get my own crib? I don't see the big deal in it and I am cool with everyone of all races so its hard for me to have all of this drama.Please, I need advice with relationships/dating-I wanna date interracial and my fam don't like it(READ BELOW)
You should do what makes you happy regardless of what your family thinks. You cant live for someone else, no matter how hard you try it just wont work. If you meet someone you should ask her out, tell her your family situation, she might be more understanding then you are giving her credit for. Be aware though, that even though you are ';grown'; your family might take a while to respect your decisions (assuming they ever do!) and it might be a strain on your relationships.Please, I need advice with relationships/dating-I wanna date interracial and my fam don't like it(READ BELOW)
You are an adult. No one has any right, legal or otherwise to dictate anything to you. If they do not like it, tough. You need to assert your individuality and ';lay down the law';.





Keeping it ';secret'; is unfair to the person you are seeing. She could take it that you are ';embarassed'; to be seen with her. This would not make her feel to good. You could find her leaving you. This will do nothing but add more stress to an already bad situation.





What you need to do is come to terms with the fact you are an independent person with the right to do as you choose. If your family wants to cause trouble, then you simply ignore them and go on with your life.
if you have feelings for this girl then race or whatever anyone else thinks doesn't mean a thing. if they have a problem with you dating a non-white then that's their problem and you shouldn't have to deal with that. if they are your family then they should be more understanding and it's pretty sad that they aren't putting your feelings first. if i were you i would date the person you like now, why wait. it's not fair to you or her to have to put feelings aside just to make others happy. good luck to you
i think you should date whoever you want and when ever you want. Maybe you should talk to your family and tell them how u feel. it shouldnt matter what race they are as long as they make you happy.

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