I can't be in a relationship~Why am I so lame? NEED ADVICE!?

I have only had one serious relationship in my life, and that was in High school, my Jr yr. for just that year.


i am now expecting to go into my Jr yr of college and have not been with any other guys. I don't have very many guys to choose from at my school, either taken, jerks, or ghetto. Am i being to picky?? Why can't i find a guy. I just want to be in a relationship, to care for someone and be cared for. I am relatively attractive and in shape. What is my problem, how can i correct it?I can't be in a relationship~Why am I so lame? NEED ADVICE!?
i dont see any problem ,being picky is a good thing ...but if u go lookin for a realtionship ull never find it and if u rush into one the outcome will hurt ur feelings.. so just go with the flow..and by that i mean dont narrow ur options in skool only ther r other nice smart guys out side college... i think u might judje too much ,u should open up a lil more ,of course stay faithful to ur womenhood but try dating other guys without analyzing too much.. and keep doin wat ur doin ...good luckI can't be in a relationship~Why am I so lame? NEED ADVICE!?
Don't f*** where you work. It's just a bad idea. This comes from a guy. I'm still paying for that mistake 2 years later. Bars are a bad idea, at least if your looking for something that will last longer then one night. I only know the pot holes, and haven't a clue where the good paved roads are. Picky is okay as long as you have matching attributes.
put ur self out there hun...or go somewhere else...the world isnt limited to only 1 college