I am going to end a relationship tonight with my bi GF – any advice?

I was at Bar with my GF of 4 months over a week ago and another girl came up and kissed her full on the mouth. I asked what was going on and my GF said that she was bisexual but preferred men. We were going to get an apartment together. Since then I have only seen her once and we argued.





My two male friends advised me to have 3 somes with her until it got boring and then dump her. My best female friend said to end the relationship as she was trouble. I have been pretty miserable since then.





On Friday night, my best female friend came over to see me. She recently moved to Sydney. She said straight out “Tell the **** it’s over. You have a new girlfriend – me!';. She then took me into my bedroom and I had the best sex of my life. While I was lying there afterwards, trying to work out what had just happened, she said: “I have always loved you, you are just too stupid to see it”. I have known her since I was about 7 as she lived just down the street, but I always thought of her like a Sister.





Tonight I am going to see my bi GF and tell her that our relationship is over. I feel sort of sad, as as we had some really good times together.


Any advice?I am going to end a relationship tonight with my bi GF – any advice?
Tell her that you dont think its working out and its uncomfortable for you when theres twice the threat t o your relationship wherever you go. Tell her that whether or not she prefers men its not ok for her to be kissing anyone else when youre together. even if youre right there. It is possible however that she only said that to get your attention - alot of guys think thats sexy so maybe she thought you'd like it - regardless it sounds like youre not happy together anymore. Its always sad when a realtionship ends on any terms. I wouldn't reccomend that you told her about your friend because this will only hurt her and make her angry, its best to try to end the relationship on good terms.


I hope it works out with your friend, are you thinking of her differently now, relationships that start out as friendships have a good chance with a strong foundation.


Hope all goes well for you and hope this helps xI am going to end a relationship tonight with my bi GF – any advice?
well just say your not ready to get into a relationship with a bi-sexual, its just to much for you to handel at the moment... and make reference to the thing at the bar so she wont really have much to say since she just half cheated on you, but i would leave out the part with the best sex thing, sydney NS or sydney australia?
this sound like a story out of penthouse but if it is true just tell her its over you can't have this kind of relationship and move on don't drag it out and make it seem like she is the bad guy(girl) and walk away and go with your new girl she obviously like or should I say loves you
You cheated on your gf, you have no choice but to break up with her. It would be disgusting to go back to her now.





Just leave her. If she is making out with chicks and you are sleeping with other people, niether of you are ready for a monogamous relationship. Move on. It might have been fun but it could not have been very serious.
oh it gonna be tuff but be strong tell her that youve moved on try to be calm and dont fall for any oh but i love u or wotever even if she cries but its gonna be hard just tell her tht ur not rite for her and she can find someone better for her self





thts all i can say well good luck!!!


i hope everythin is gonna work out with ur female friend :)
First of all cheating on her, not so great but it sounds like its pretty much over between the two of you. I would just tell her the truth and don’t BS your way around it. It’s simple and she has right to know the truth. Best of luck.
You are better off with the Woman that loves you Duh! The other one you will always wonder if there is a woman can there be a Man? Been There done that not together now. too hard to share if you do relationship will always be tainted. Never pure.
You've got to be kidding me!!! YOU are the one who cheated on her, but you are the one dumping her? Ok man, whatever!!! Its ok, tell her to contact me, I'll give her the best sex SHE'S ever had and she'll soon forget you. :-D
oh..i remember you with your question then and you didn't know what to do.








Tell em you had sex with your best female friend and that you don't deserve her cause you cheated :/
If you try to talk it out in a stressed and excited mental state it wont be as good as disappearing for awhile.
okay well if you don't see this other girl enough i think it would be good to end it but don't let starting this other relation ship end up messing up your friend ship
Look Take It Frm A Bi Gurl Like MySelf Dont Feel Sad Cuz If She Got A Gurl She Aint Going To Give A Shyt.


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Ghud Luck
tell her some positive things bout ur realationship giv her com complements than somewhere along say ... but we arnt that good for each other..... or sumtin like that
do what you think is best
dude!!!!!! u fd ur sister lol
It kinda sounds like you want to pin the guilt for your actions on your GF, and justify them by saying ';she kissed a girl, I can screw someone else.'; I won't judge you by any means, but it seems neither of you are serious about relationships in the first place, and better off separate. As far as talking with the girl, if you knew she was bi when you got together, why did you stay in the relationship? Did you guys not talk about boundaries? I understand you don't want her to kiss others, boy or girl, but did u talk about it? Maybe she felt as if it was ok to kiss girls, and that you'd actually enjoy watching her do it? If she knew youd be hurt by her actions and she did it anyway, that's a great place to start your argument.








I find it flattering when a couple checks me out, its cute :).
Nope.


You have already made up your mind to break up with your bi girlfriend just because she is bi and you're now with your friend.





You have to learn life as it comes. You're young yet. The relationship was only four months old, but yet you're sad it's ending. You have to ask yourself why you're sad. Your guy friends (who have the typical bisexual girl misconception) were no help either.





Who knows - maybe things will work out with your friend. You never know. Go with your heart.





Good luck.
It might be too soon to end it because of a little incident. It she pushed her away, then it means she wasn't interested in the first place. If she just took it, then it must mean something, but I don't know what. Your situation with your best girl friend was worse than just a kiss. Try telling her that what you did was unacceptable. Don't just flat out say ';I found someone else.'; It'd make it so obvious that you were cheating for a while. At least it would be obvious to me...I'm sort of now an expert with these things o.o'; Try breaking up with her in the best light possible. Not in front of people where people can hear it, humilating her. Nothing embarassing about dumping someone, but being dumped clearly shows that they did something wrong. Try telling her all the good times you spent together then make it official. After a few days, if you see her again, tell her you met someone else. Less suspicious. The end of a relationship is never good =P hopefully she doesn't take it too hard.
My advice is to not be afraid of saying it's over. Tell it to her directly and straight to her face. Not by text message, not by email, not while looking at her shoes.





Explain to her why it's over so she understands what not to do next time she gets in a relationship (so she doesn't hurt others the way she hurt you), if she wants one that is...





Then you can either leave her there to reflect over it or you can wait there with her.





Finally don't go soft and get back together with her, ever.





Location is also a big deal, don't dump her at your place or at her place (unless you have a car or means of getting home that does not involve her) and if it's some time like at the movies, wait until the movie is over and you are about to depart.
its about time I stop passing couples in the mall where they both check me out. do it