I need advice on relationships?

I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I've been with my boyfriend for over one year, and he's great--most of the time. I'm a single mother, and my son has recently turned two. A few months ago, my boyfriend called my son a rude name, and it's really contributed to the deterioration of our relationship. He said he wasn't thinking at the time he said it, etc., and I've honestly tried to forgive him. He lives in a different country, but he comes to visit me every once in a while and he is graduating from university soon. He wants me to move in with him.





I feel like if I want a good, comfortable life I will have to stay with him, even if I'm unhappy. I don't want to chalk things up to money, but I have no choice in the matter. But here's where the real dilemma comes in. Now I have never cheated on my boyfriend--ever--but I am madly in love with this guy I have known and sort of dated a while ago. Since I came back in town, we've been hanging out and I find myself still very much attracted to him and I intensely care about him. He makes a good salary, etc., and claims to be interested in being with me, but my life won't be as comfortable with him. (I know that sounds bad!!) But I'm worried if I'm not with him, I won't ever be happy. Does anyone have any advice on this, or what I should do? Should I stay with my boyfriend and work it out since he has spent so much time and effort on me and perhaps I might eventually come to love him? Or should I try things out with the man I have feelings for? If I didn't have my son to look out for, money would not be a matter at all, if that helps. I know this sounds like a no-brainer and I may sound shallow to most, but I really need some advice. I'm torn. I have to make sure that my son has the best life possible. (We were abandoned by his biological father... I've never had the best judgment of men!) I feel like it would kill my boyfriend if I left him, and I really don't want to hurt him. I'm just confused, and I feel sick about the whole thing. Not to mention, I feel like a terrible person.I need advice on relationships?
i would break up wit him because you have to look at it like thats not good for your son and his safety he called your son a rude name wats next him hitting on you and beating your son you have to look at it from a point of view