Long distance relationship is making me feel insecure need advice?

i am in a long distance relationship i am in nevada he is in texas


we have fallen in love in such a short time he says he is faithful as i am too.the only thing is if we are so in love and faithful why do i feel insecure?


i feel that he is lying to me in many ways for one he says he is in school but yet he is online when he says he is in school also he has been doing online dating for years and they all didnt work out for some reason.he also does not work and says he is living with his brother but its his apartment how can that be when he doesnt work?


he does call me but we are not communicating enough i asked him to please make some effort because we are not down the street from each other but hes not all though he said he is.i have asked him to come clean with me and qsked him numerous questions and the more i ask the moire he seems to be distant.i love him and want to make this work but i cannot do that if he is not being honest with me.i dont think he is cheating on me at least i hope not.any advice pleaseLong distance relationship is making me feel insecure need advice?
Can I get a thumbs up from everyone who has had a long distance relationship fail?





Sounds like he is hiding something from you. Probably another woman or something underhanded. Save yourself the time and heartbreak and find someone in your own town!Long distance relationship is making me feel insecure need advice?
you question everything about his life. I am sorry, but I really don't think you are in love. I think you are in love with the idea of it. Have you ever met him?
Never works out. Did you ever hear the term '; dont s--t where you eat.'; Thats exactly whats going on here.
i am currently trying to end my long distance relationship because i became very insecure and became a snoop which is completely out of my character. I love him, but I love myself more at this point and the relationship was not healthy for my own being.


There were never questions of staying faithful, but I feel he was lying about so many things. Without being around and a being a part of his daily life, lying is very easy to do. I'm not saying ALL men lie, but a lot of men I have met have a tendancy to lie or twist the truth to make themselves sound better catch. (I know woman do too) But honestly, if one of you cannot relocate to be near eachother, keeping the relationship alive will be very hard to do. It becomes very stressful. Relationships require touch, feel, smell- these are all important in feelings connected to your partner.


I love my man, but until we can be around eachother more than once every 4 months, the relationship is not for me. I refuse to lose myself to keep a relationship.


Good luck. I hope you can find more strength than I could.
Me and my husband started off as a long distance relationship and we met on a dating site. He lied alot when we first got together. I didn't find out until we were together for 6 months that he lied so much. I was very insecure with him to. now we have been married for about a year, and i am still somewhat insecure, because he lies so much. it is hard to trust a man that is so far away, and i can say from personal experience that it never goes away.