I'm in a relationship, and am having second thoughts...any advice?

I'm currently in a BRAND NEW relationship (I'm gay btw), less than a day old. I am having second thoughts about being in this relationship. I guess I'm still hung up on my ex. I thought I was over him, but I guess I'm not, and I guess I'm not ready to be in a new relationship. I'm not sure how to tell the him that I don't want to be in a relationship. He's a nice, sweet guy, but I just don't feel the connection. And he asked me all the serious questions while he was, for fear of sounding crude, ';servicing'; me. I now feel that this relationship is based on sex, because we haven't had a proper date, and I don't want to be in a relationship solely based on sex.





And to top it all off, on my way home, I get a text from my ex, even though we are no longer together, we are still good friends. This makes me question everything even more. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time, I don't want to lead him on.


I just don't know what to do. Any suggestions?I'm in a relationship, and am having second thoughts...any advice?
It sounds like your not ready to move on, you need time to get over your ex. I believe you need to be happy by yourself before you can be happy with someone else, I realize you feel bad breaking it off with this guy but it's worse leading him on. Good luck :o)