Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Need Some Advice in relationships: Serious Answers?

I have a boyfriend for one month. We get along and i can be myself around him. He always tell me that he really likes me and compliments me a lot. However, i thought i had left this behind me but before i met my bf, i had a huge crush on this guy that i knew first. It seems that this old crush has brought up feelings that i thought i buried. He had asked me out but i chose not to pursue it because i was afraid of losing our friendship if it didnt work out. After i got with my bf, my heart gets excited when ever i speak to my crush who i care about a lot. I know that my crush likes me. I even feel a little jealous when he spoke about someone else tho. I thought maybe it is best that he finds someone else so that i can maintain our friendship. Now I'm torn between my bf and my crush. At times i feel that i should give my relationship with my b/f a chance but then i wonder if im better suited with my crush. I can't seem to miss my bf whenever we are apart for a few days. I don't want to make the wrong choice and im not sure what i should do. I don't want to hurt anyone either and perhaps i dont want to be alone. I just so uncertain about everything. I don't know how you suppose to know who you truly want to be with.Need Some Advice in relationships: Serious Answers?
I always say follow your heart...and by the sounds of it your heart seems to be beating for your crush. I would pursue your crush and see how things work out...because then you will have no regrets. Luckily for you, the relationshipw ith your current bf is only a month..so he should be able to recover quickly and move on with his life.Need Some Advice in relationships: Serious Answers?
You like someone else more, than you like your boyfriend. I could imagine that one way or another, he'll be left the looser in this situation. Either he'll get cheated on, undervalued or dumped (not necessary, I know :))





But you are the most important person in this situation right. Hopefully you can make the right choice, and not break any hearts (that REALLY hurts, so be nice).
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