She's very controlling. She thinks she needs to tell me how to do everything, and gets upset when I don't do what she said. Even the simplest things such as how to put the glasses in the cabinets. Thinks everything she has is the best, done everything better or something happened to her worse, no one has a job as hard as hers. She's a pharm. rep and shops for herself most of the day, may actually work 2 or 3 hours a day...real difficult. She constantly interupts me while I'm speaking. I'll be in mid-sentence and she will just start talking, loudly, about something completely different. I have told her several times that I don't appreciate this. Her response: I thought you were finished. I say that's because you aren't listening. So many other issues I have with her, just not enough space. She is 40 %26amp; I'm 44, both married. I can barely stand to be around her anymore. I find myself ignoring her calls and coming up with reasons not to spend anytime with her. How would you handle this? tyI have a ';friend'; issue I need advice about. Should I dissolve this relationship? Some of the issues are:
WOW, there is a 40 year old like this??? i thought it was just girls my age... and i'm 18... if this was me i would end the friendship NOW... i can't stand being around people like this and i've had to deal with so many of them... friends are supposed to lift you up... and these kinds of people only bring you down... she doesn't sound like a good friend... she's only into herself and isn't interested in what you have to say... i would end it... hope things work out for you...I have a ';friend'; issue I need advice about. Should I dissolve this relationship? Some of the issues are:
You should end it, i mean be honest. Either tell her that you cant stand her, or cut it off. I had a friend who got on my nerves and would always be controlling. Even when I'm in charge. One day i didn't answer the phone when his fiance called and he got pissed at me, so now i don't talk to him.
talk to her about it?
Sounds like she's a differcult person to like, i just wouldn't bother with her any more
Well it depends on how long have you been friends with her. I mean if you have know each other for 20years...then you know how she is but if its only been a few years...and she's getting on your nerves this bad then stop talking to her. She'll either get the message and straigten up or find another poor soul to dish her bad attitude on.
Try to talk with her again and point out how she makes you feel.. always start with how you feel not what she does, at our age it's hard to find friends so we need to cherish the ones we have however, if it's draining the life out of you it's not a healthy relationship and maybe distancing you self is the best thing..good luck. Friendship is a two way street, one can't be the giver all the time. It has to work both ways.
if you dont enjoy being her friend u should stop it
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