Please help me i need some serious advice about how to fix my relationship!!!!?

My boyfriend and i were friends for years before we got together. I don't know what to do we are in the middle of a fight because I was hurt really bad in a previous relationship and i kinda let some of my past bother me in way that i cannot describe. Anyways i think i really pissed him off this time because i made a statement about how i was insecure and i didn't want to be hurt again. I also questioned him about being serious about our relationship,and now i think i may have hurt his feelings.... what do i do?Please help me i need some serious advice about how to fix my relationship!!!!?
interesting.. i think there are plenty of women out in the world that have been in your situation one time or another.. first off, ask yourself this: Do you truly trust your boyfriend?


If you are even the least bit sure, then this is not going to work. You can't bring the past into the present, it will never work. You have to learn to let it go, and maybe you just aren't ready to do so. Maybe you need time to be alone, and grow and get past these feelings of hurt you have. Sometimes that is just what we need. But if you really love your boyfriend, then you have to face the music and swallow your pride and apologize. Let him know what you meant by your comments and that you are trying your best to get over it and if he could just understand. But once again, it is not fair for him to pay the price for someone else's actions.. So think about what you want to do and what you know you are capable of doing. Oh, and if you keep going this route, not only will you 2 not work, but he might even get tired of it and really end up hurting you. Good luck!.... Love yourself first.. you won't be able to have a successful relationship without your own self-love.Please help me i need some serious advice about how to fix my relationship!!!!?
well I know exactly what your talking about because the same thing that happened with me and my ex boifriend and trust me your past sometimes can be a devil but you have to look past those issues and hope that he is better than the last at least give him a chance to prove himself to you.
You should want to be with someone that you can be honest with. If you feel insecure he should know about it. Don't allow your fears to cripple every good relationship you could have, however. Don't walk on egg shells because your afraid of what he might do cause in the end a man is gonna do what he wants to do.
If you were wrong, apologize. Love hurts sometimes, and everyone fights. Next time, try not to say anything that you'll regret. That'll save a lot of unnecessary pain.
I just went through this same thing so I know first hand what you need to do. Ask him if you can sit down and talk to him and explain to him why you said what you did. Than tell him that you are insecure and have low self-esteem and you let that take over which caused you to have paranoid delusional fears. Tell him it was just all fear talking and you didn't mean what you said and you trust him, love him and know he would never hurt you. Tell him you are going to work on your self-esteem and insecurities and you will try and not let it or your past get in the way of your relationship again. Tell him from this moment on you are living in the present and planning a future with him. Than say can you please forgive me?
just tell him straight up that you still are insecure about relationships and tell him it's not his fault but you can't help it
If you were friends prior to the relationship, he should understand how you feel and your reasons. Sit down with him and lay everything on the table (your insecurities, feelings for him, what you want from the relationship, etc.) have him do the same thing and come to some kind of solution that fits both of you. If he really wants to be there, he will help you through the hurt. Sometimes, when friends are intimate or take the relationship to a different level, the FRIENDSHIP connection is lost. You can no longer communicate in the same way. Make it know that you would like to keep that connection and before starting future conversations, you may need to express which angle you are coming from (friend or lover)