Some advice on relationships..?

Might be long..?





I'm 22 and just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship (that was leading to marriage) two months ago. I was heartbroken of course and wanted to stay single for a long time to sort my self out and figure out what i wanted from life and my next relationship (as my ex was abusive).





A month ago, i met a man who i like very much and he likes me too. We have seen each other every weekend since we met and talk twice a day. Sometimes three times. He got out of an abusive relationship (and engagement) six months ago and is saying he is ready to be in a relationship with me, but i don't know if i'm ready. How do i tell when i am ready?





It feels great to be around him. It's as easy as breathing and it hurts to be away from him. I'm in love with him, i know that much but i still hurt from my breakup. I still love my ex. Does it matter if i do?





I have a lot of fun with this guy, but i don't know if i'm ready to commit. I'm in no rush to get 'serious', but i don't want to lose him either.





Your thoughts appreciated!Some advice on relationships..?
i personally think u still need a bit more time dealing with ur past becuz first)vyou said it urself and secondly u say ur still in love with ur ex. i think it will hurt a relationship if ure with a guy and thinking of someone else. obviously u and the other guy werent meant to be if youve found someone new. give urself time to hesal from almost 3 years of ur life! tell him..and if hes not willing to wait till ure ready does he really deserve u? i dont think so. overall the choice is urs. hope i helped and best of luck in the future. :)Some advice on relationships..?
Don't make any decisions until your 90 day trial period is up.Women generally fall in love and stay in love but men don't,If he still wants you after 90 days then go for it but wait till that 90 days is up,trust me.
Hey girl





Don't rush into things - have fun but at the same time evaluate the new guy


Sometimes we just want to have what we had before and feel like everything is back to normal but not realizinge not completely gotten over the hurt in the pas
past is past and life is present plus looking ahead to the future....move on and get a life. give yourself some more time to know this guy well and work out a relationship if your liking increases. do not look back in life as it is too short.
instead of loosing him....be with him and take ur time...it is not necessary that u should be away from him...and then after 2 -3 month u feel that u should get committed....instead be with him now...and as time passess try loving him...and forgetting ur ex....
Tell him you want to take things slowly. If he doesn't accept that, move on and enjoy the single life.
In someways you never know when your ready. Be honest with him and let him know how your feeling. You don't have to rush into anything, take it slowly and see what progresses.





You were in a long relationship with your ex and you will still feel you love him, but as you know the relationship would not work. You can not be in an abusive relationship, but it is hard to stop loving someone.





Well done for getting out of that relationship before it was to late. Take your time with this new guy but don't let him slip away if you don't want to loose him. Enjoy developing something great with him and let yourself be happy again.