Saturday, August 21, 2010

I need some advice with relationships?

Okay me and this guy met two years ago and we became best friends. He had a girlfriend for two years and lets just say I accidently fell for him while being friends so I told him.. I know not a good idea! Well, he felt the same and broke up with his girlfriend and it caused so much drama it sucked! Anyways we were together for 3 months but I ended it because he told a girl he was single. We've been dating on and off for 2 years and him and his ex girlfriend have been too.. Well they broke up about 6 months ago because she got tired of him and now shes dating someone else. Well he started dating one of my supposively good friends and I had said something to her and he got ticked at me and said he didnt want to talk to me at all, even as friends. So a month passed and he randomly texted me and said he was sorry and so we started talking again, as friends! Him and my friend were still together at the time but he told me last night he had alot of feelings for me and ended up breaking up with his girlfriend to ';prove it';. I honestly dont know what to do because my parents dislike him because my mom saw a text where he called me a b*tch when we were fighting and she did not like that! Plus my friends say all the time I can do better and stuff.. I started realizing last night I dont want a relationship with him anymore.. I just feel really bad because he poored his feelings out to me last night and broke up with his girlfriend.. I've tried fighting with him to push him away and he just keeps saying he's sorry and stuff.. I want to keep him in my life but he said hes gonna do anything he can to get me back! I even told him it might be awhile and he said he doesn't care.. And I would say exactly what I just said in here but if I did he would never talk to me again.. Atleast not for awhile and I hate not talking to him because hes a really good friend! I mean I do have feelings for him but I know were just not meant to be otherwise these 2 years wouldnt have been on and off.. And i told him that but he said were inevitable and we just keep coming back to eachother so there must be something special. I really dont know what Im asking but if you can just give me anytype of advice?I need some advice with relationships?
Just pick me for your best answer. Thanks for the 10 points in advance.I need some advice with relationships?
Excuse me, but um... What does that have to do with LGBT questions?!
If you feel that strongly about a person and all you've been through was nothing but drama... You're gonna have to see that hes changed and just saying that hes sorry and all about the past doesnt consider that hes truly sorry. Yeah theres a sayin ';you dont know what your missing til its gone'; its true, he can be telling the truth but make him show you that hes sorry and that its worth getting back.


As for your mom and friends giving you advice... they are probably right you can find someone better. Two years on and off of a relationship isnt worth trying to get back together just because you been through a lot with him breaking up with you to go from girl to girl... Its honestly not worth the try unless you can honestly see the change FIRST before even considering to get back with him.

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