I can't deal with relationships. Please offer some advice?

I met this girl online after breaking up with my girlfriend in September. My ex cheated on my after 5 years. It cut me up.





I met this girl and I really really like her, and she really likes me. We slept together twice and I stayed with her up until this morning. We both live far apart, but it's really hard for me.





Ive know her online for ages, but face to face a few days. We get on so well. The problem is my trust issues. Its a frigging joke and I am so angry at myself for even feeling like this.





I know 100% she feels alot for me, she told me. But I can't deal with another relationship. My heads a mess, it's been like 3 days. I skipped a week of uni because of it. But we both like each other so much.





I keep thinking negative all the time. Like what if this and what if that.





I really don't know what else to explain, its a mess in my head. I don't want to let her go because she is amazing, but I also don't want to hurt her by telling her my issues.





What do I do?I can't deal with relationships. Please offer some advice?
gotta talk to her really be honest. we all arnt bad girls you knowI can't deal with relationships. Please offer some advice?
Honesty is key in a relationship.
I understand how you feel, so don't feel angry with yourself - you are only reacting to the pain you experienced ... but maybe this is time for a light to frighten your fear out of the shadows %26amp; you can lay the past to rest.


You can only be the person you are feeling right now, so you just need to tell her exactly how you feel


If she is a good person, she'll understand %26amp; if she cares about you she'll want to help - believe me, it will hurt her more if you just let her go without telling her your issues.


Shes not going to drop you %26amp; run just because you are human.


It doesn't mean just because you talk to her that you have to dive into a major relationship overnight ... but its the building bricks for a good relationship. Good luck :)