I need ADVICE with relationships?

its funny i always like someone and then when we finally date everything changes. once were together its different. i get so confused. i start thinking ohh maybe i dont like them anymore. i dont know why i do that but if im dating someone i feel unconfertable. i honestly dont think i have a commitment issue but now that i think about it what else could it be. i mean i have gotten hurt in the past but i still want to date and be happy. i just dont know what is wrong. please help me because its ruining my dating life. one second im so happy talking to the person the next its weird . i dont know how to explain it. so im just like i should break up with them even though they didnt do anything wrong. im going out with this guy now and he's so caring but there something holding me back and i feel so sad because i want to love him as much as he does and i dont want to say things i dont mean. maybe it takes longer for me to relaly get attached to someone i think i put this wall up even though i dont notice it most of the time. please help me on what i could do o change that


thank you so much in advance :)I need ADVICE with relationships?
Holy crap i have THE SAME problem.


okay so when i was in 7th grade i had a lot of people that i liked and that liked me back and i was only interested in them when we weren't dating and when they finally told me that they liked me or when they wanted to go out i would immediately stop liking them. And i would always have this problem. But then in 8th grade i found this guy that i was very interested in and that i liked a lot. So when he told me that he liked me for some reason i still liked him; which was very weird for me. And when he asked me out we were not awkward and everything was perfect. So what i think is going on with you is that you haven't found a guy that you are TRUELY happy with, so when you like a guy your head thinks that you do but your heart knows you don't truely like him so you always get mixed feelings about that guy. So when you do find a guy that you do FOR SURE like a lot then you wont have this problem. And people always tell me that i have a commitment problem, but what is really going on is that we're just picky people.


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You just haven't fallen in love yet. The fact that you don't waste your time with a relationship that isn't going anywhere is a good thing. If you don't love him, your not going to any time soon. Just keep on looking. You'll find him. One day.
i'm the same way.. i think it's because when you like someone and your not dating them it's just more fun, you know? like you dont have them yet so it's fun to get them to like you and everything but then once your dating them its just like ok i got them, but now i dont want them anymore and i dont know why but i think its because its just not fun anymore. it can also be because now that you have them your afraid of losing them. or it could be like you said you have commitment problems. which is how i am too, even if i really like someone i just don't like the idea of being with just that one person and i dont know why. you can still date people without having to be in a committed relationship with just one person
Umm is this my sister Betty? lol.. You sound just like her! Are you in Tampa?