Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Need advice on relationships!?

Hi, I am a 20 year old male, and I love older men how do I tell my parents?!Need advice on relationships!?
Snake... do your parents even know you are gay? I'm assuming not, so telling them that you are gay and you like older men would be a double shock.





The first thing they are going to presume is that you have been sexually molested my an older man and that you are not gay as such, just a victim, for which they will want revenge. I would not advise being quite so forthcoming with them.





Announcing your gay should be enough to keep you going for a while. Once they are used to that, then maybe introduce them to a partner, but to be perfectly honest with you, I can't ever see you all playing happy families. I'm sorry to be so negative.





Incidentally, I'm an ';older'; man or a young-at-heart mature man, as I prefer, but I think I'd be uneasy being introduced to the parents of my 20 year old lover - if only I had one, that is :(





Good luck!Need advice on relationships!?
That depends on how much older they are and how much of a difference there is between your parents. Personally, my parents have a 12 year difference between them and they get along fine. If it's not something that your parents would really approve of, try telling them that your not dating 'older' men, your dating 'mature' men:D That way they think your being all responsible and grown up and stuff:D!!
OK im going to tell you the same thing i told the other guy.You will cause friction no mater how you say it and they will be hurt. How you choose to do it is your choice ither way they get hurt.

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