New relationship starting and his ex... please give advice?

I'm 18 and the guy is 24. His last relationship recently ended it was shorter than a year long but very serious, like he really loved her but she wouldn't be with him for various reasons. like she was scared that she'd get hurt or cheated on and she didn't like their age difference and so she kept telling him they aren't together but they still had a thing. But she messes around with other guys so I figured it was over. And one night I was hanging out with friends before I really new the guy and I only kind of know his ex well she came up to me and our mutual friend and said ';he doesn't get that we aren't together'; That's the best I know of they're relationship. I've been hanging out with him for a little over a week like every night hanging out with his roommates cuz his only girl roommate is my friend and like a sister to him and we definitely became interested in each other and I've been sleeping in the same bed with him and kissing you know. well apparently his ex has found out and is freaking out and this made him mad the fact that anyone even knows and is telling her. But now I don't know how things are with us... he still wants me to stay in his bed but the last two times since his ex found out he hasn't cuddled with me or anything and it's different. I know I'm not expecting too much like a relationship until more time has passed but I don't want to be wasting my time either cuz I really am interested in him I'm not sure how to act or what to do... any advice? other than the obvious which is talking to him about it.New relationship starting and his ex... please give advice?
It is obvious that he or even the ex has not moved on. They are still in a way have some unfinished business. Maybe they did accept that they have broken up, but they havent passed that staged that they can accept one another to be with someone else. You dont even have to ask your guy, but rather give him some time to really decide to see if he has gone moved on with his ex. Or, the former gf might be the one that has not moved on. If the guy really wants to be with you, he has to lessen his contact or exposure with his former gf and put you as priority. If your relationship is still affected by his past, then you should tell him to fix it first before involving himself with you seriously. Its fair for him and for you.New relationship starting and his ex... please give advice?
You're setting yourself up for disaster.





If you're already sleeping in bed with him and you haven't told him that you want to be exclusive, he's already pretty close to getting what he wants. So why should he break it off with the girl that he likes?





He wants to be with her, she plays hard to get. You're the in-between playtoy until she makes up her mind. He's using you to show her that ';Hey, you DO care about me. You don't like the fact that there's some girl in bed with me...so do something about it.';





Cut it off before you make a fool of yourself. If he doesn't want anyone to know about you sleeping over, there's a reason.

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