Hi, I am a 20 year old male, and I love older men how do I tell my parents?!Need advice on relationships!?
Snake... do your parents even know you are gay? I'm assuming not, so telling them that you are gay and you like older men would be a double shock.
The first thing they are going to presume is that you have been sexually molested my an older man and that you are not gay as such, just a victim, for which they will want revenge. I would not advise being quite so forthcoming with them.
Announcing your gay should be enough to keep you going for a while. Once they are used to that, then maybe introduce them to a partner, but to be perfectly honest with you, I can't ever see you all playing happy families. I'm sorry to be so negative.
Incidentally, I'm an ';older'; man or a young-at-heart mature man, as I prefer, but I think I'd be uneasy being introduced to the parents of my 20 year old lover - if only I had one, that is :(
Good luck!Need advice on relationships!?
That depends on how much older they are and how much of a difference there is between your parents. Personally, my parents have a 12 year difference between them and they get along fine. If it's not something that your parents would really approve of, try telling them that your not dating 'older' men, your dating 'mature' men:D That way they think your being all responsible and grown up and stuff:D!!
OK im going to tell you the same thing i told the other guy.You will cause friction no mater how you say it and they will be hurt. How you choose to do it is your choice ither way they get hurt.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Does anyone have any advice about relationships??
im in higschool and alot of girls like me and idk what to doDoes anyone have any advice about relationships??
get over yourself and find a real problem.Does anyone have any advice about relationships??
take your time, don't be in a rush for a relationship. the right time will come for you so don't worry about the girls there, because they might like you for the wrong reasons. i'm a jr. in high too so i know what it's like. trust me, take your time... go exsplore the world first!
Play the field.... (oh, and we are all experts on relationships, here... you should know that by now....)
Your first concern should be for the best education that you can get, while you are in school.... because you're gonna have to support one of us, soon enough!!!
.... have fun... play safe.. and be sincere, don't go around breaking girls hearts just because you can............or you'll be sitting alone, on Yahoo Q/A in your 30's...........lol!
Hmm.. Ask out one of the girls you are interested in. Then always respect her and the other girls who like you.
Be honest but not brutally so. Be nice. Don't lead girls on purposely, if you don't like them, don't pretend like you do (sometimes they believe what they want to believe and therefore lead themselves on, but you can't help that). Being a ';player'; is not the cool thing to do. Cheating is not the cool thing to do. Don't force a girl into anything, if she doesn't want to do something don't pressure her into it. Don't foget that highschool love is just that, college is a short number of years away so don't get too wrapped up. Have fun. Don't be a jerk.mask making
get over yourself and find a real problem.Does anyone have any advice about relationships??
take your time, don't be in a rush for a relationship. the right time will come for you so don't worry about the girls there, because they might like you for the wrong reasons. i'm a jr. in high too so i know what it's like. trust me, take your time... go exsplore the world first!
Play the field.... (oh, and we are all experts on relationships, here... you should know that by now....)
Your first concern should be for the best education that you can get, while you are in school.... because you're gonna have to support one of us, soon enough!!!
.... have fun... play safe.. and be sincere, don't go around breaking girls hearts just because you can............or you'll be sitting alone, on Yahoo Q/A in your 30's...........lol!
Hmm.. Ask out one of the girls you are interested in. Then always respect her and the other girls who like you.
Be honest but not brutally so. Be nice. Don't lead girls on purposely, if you don't like them, don't pretend like you do (sometimes they believe what they want to believe and therefore lead themselves on, but you can't help that). Being a ';player'; is not the cool thing to do. Cheating is not the cool thing to do. Don't force a girl into anything, if she doesn't want to do something don't pressure her into it. Don't foget that highschool love is just that, college is a short number of years away so don't get too wrapped up. Have fun. Don't be a jerk.
Help i need your advice in relationships desperately, thanks xxx?
i have known this lad i am in love with for 7years , and a year ago we had a thing we liked eachother and had sex , i had a boyfriend i no its bad but really loved this person, and i carried on meeting him every weekend in a club with our friends , but didnt do anything not even kiss! just talk , there was a rumour that if i didnt have a boyfriend that he would be with me, i didnt beleive this rumour and didnt do anything , then he met this girl and he has been with her for 4months now, and now i realise how much i love him. i wont go out on weekends if hes not out, and when i see him he makes me happy. he knows i like him, newyrs eve 07 we speant time together as friends and i loved every min of it. he is going in the navy in the next 3weeks. i dont want him 2 leave, and i want him 2 be with me not his new girlfriend she horrible and says 2 him that im nasty 2 her just so he falls out with me!, but I LOVE HIM , helppppppHelp i need your advice in relationships desperately, thanks xxx?
For goodness sakes - just be honest with the guy!! Especially when he will with the navy soon. Before you know it, more years will pass without anything happening and could be ';too late'; as he may settle down. Life is too short.
For goodness sakes - just be honest with the guy!! Especially when he will with the navy soon. Before you know it, more years will pass without anything happening and could be ';too late'; as he may settle down. Life is too short.
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Advice on relationships given by...?
people who have never been in any boyfriend\girlfriend relationships
what do yall think? if a teenager is giving advice/instruction on how to run a relationship when he/she has never been in one... and stating that he/she knows better than those in a relationship because they are watching from the outside?Advice on relationships given by...?
Really you can never comment on any relationship becasue there is NO WAY you know all the ins and outs, discussions, arguments, good times and bad to really have a valid opinion. Teenagers think they know everything and that the world is black and white - but it is all shades of grey and there is no way that someone not intimately involved in that relationship could ever really know what is going on.Advice on relationships given by...?
Well, I do that. I mean I really do know what I am saying, because my sister, ( Who happens to date a guy every ... DAY) I mean Some people r really good advise givers even though they havent experienced it. Oh well, as long as it helps!
I have only been in4 or 5 relationships and many people come to me and ask for help and i really can tell them good addvie and i really don't know why i or why i can to that.
what do yall think? if a teenager is giving advice/instruction on how to run a relationship when he/she has never been in one... and stating that he/she knows better than those in a relationship because they are watching from the outside?Advice on relationships given by...?
Really you can never comment on any relationship becasue there is NO WAY you know all the ins and outs, discussions, arguments, good times and bad to really have a valid opinion. Teenagers think they know everything and that the world is black and white - but it is all shades of grey and there is no way that someone not intimately involved in that relationship could ever really know what is going on.Advice on relationships given by...?
Well, I do that. I mean I really do know what I am saying, because my sister, ( Who happens to date a guy every ... DAY) I mean Some people r really good advise givers even though they havent experienced it. Oh well, as long as it helps!
I have only been in4 or 5 relationships and many people come to me and ask for help and i really can tell them good addvie and i really don't know why i or why i can to that.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Advice on relationships?
where do i even begin, im so confused right now, it's like i lost everything i already knew, or maybe i never had it but i really want to find the right guy for me, i just dont know where to startAdvice on relationships?
Dr. Phil should get a Yahoo!Answers account.Advice on relationships?
Been there, done that, you'll need to be a little more specific. As on where to start, groups of friends, I met my wife because she was a friend of a friend that got invited to an activity that I organised!
Dr. Phil should get a Yahoo!Answers account.Advice on relationships?
Been there, done that, you'll need to be a little more specific. As on where to start, groups of friends, I met my wife because she was a friend of a friend that got invited to an activity that I organised!
Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
okay.
i've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month and a week. just to outline it, he's 17 and i'm 14. our birthday's are both in november. my parents know we're together, and they love him.
anyways. we used to always argue and fight, like it was pretty much a daily thing, no lie. but the other night, we got into a big one, and he told me that ';if he hurts me again, then he wants me to break up with me.'; i didnt agree to this, but i didnt disagree. ever since that night, there has been a little tension. we havent been in any big arguments or fights, maybe just minor ones that we got over. i feel like he's kind of pulling away from me, and he doesnt say 'i love you' nearly as much as he used to .. usually, it's just 'love you' now. i dont know if it means his feelings are changed, but it bothers me knowing that he wont say ';i love you.'; but when we're together, everything is like perfectly fine. but when we're not, it's all weird. [continued]Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
Wow that was long. You really sound like you like this guy. But the two of you only been going out for a month. It also sounds like a lot of fighting. You do know that you will have lots of boyfriends by the time you are 18, why are you worring? One month is not a relationship. Thats just a fling.
If things dont work out dont worry, Theres lots more.Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
sounds like me. well im not gonna say that it's not gonna work out because it will believe me. I would jusst give him his space for a while. Don't talk about certain things that make him uncomfortable or things he really doesn't want to talk about. About the 'love you'; I love you thing its really all the same. my b/f says it all the time. and we are inseperable. You shouldn't doubt that he loves you because judging by your story it sounds like he is crazy for you. just give him time and u will see how things will change for the better. Another thing don't call him 24/7 limit ur calls to like 2 times a week. or something like that. just a thought
At that age, its a biiig age difference. 17 y/o guys who date 14 y/o girls are usually either:
1. Desperate. They can't find a girl around their age, so they resort to younger ones.
2. Perverts. They want to use you because they think you're young %26amp; gullible. They will say ANYTHING to get into your pants, so to speak. ';Baby I love you and I'd never do anything to hurt you, you know that.';... ';I don't think you love me like you used to, you have to prove your love to me by ____.';
i've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month and a week. just to outline it, he's 17 and i'm 14. our birthday's are both in november. my parents know we're together, and they love him.
anyways. we used to always argue and fight, like it was pretty much a daily thing, no lie. but the other night, we got into a big one, and he told me that ';if he hurts me again, then he wants me to break up with me.'; i didnt agree to this, but i didnt disagree. ever since that night, there has been a little tension. we havent been in any big arguments or fights, maybe just minor ones that we got over. i feel like he's kind of pulling away from me, and he doesnt say 'i love you' nearly as much as he used to .. usually, it's just 'love you' now. i dont know if it means his feelings are changed, but it bothers me knowing that he wont say ';i love you.'; but when we're together, everything is like perfectly fine. but when we're not, it's all weird. [continued]Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
Wow that was long. You really sound like you like this guy. But the two of you only been going out for a month. It also sounds like a lot of fighting. You do know that you will have lots of boyfriends by the time you are 18, why are you worring? One month is not a relationship. Thats just a fling.
If things dont work out dont worry, Theres lots more.Could you give me any advice or help me in saving my relationship? =/?
sounds like me. well im not gonna say that it's not gonna work out because it will believe me. I would jusst give him his space for a while. Don't talk about certain things that make him uncomfortable or things he really doesn't want to talk about. About the 'love you'; I love you thing its really all the same. my b/f says it all the time. and we are inseperable. You shouldn't doubt that he loves you because judging by your story it sounds like he is crazy for you. just give him time and u will see how things will change for the better. Another thing don't call him 24/7 limit ur calls to like 2 times a week. or something like that. just a thought
At that age, its a biiig age difference. 17 y/o guys who date 14 y/o girls are usually either:
1. Desperate. They can't find a girl around their age, so they resort to younger ones.
2. Perverts. They want to use you because they think you're young %26amp; gullible. They will say ANYTHING to get into your pants, so to speak. ';Baby I love you and I'd never do anything to hurt you, you know that.';... ';I don't think you love me like you used to, you have to prove your love to me by ____.';
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