Opinions/advice on what I should do in my relationship?

Ive been in a three year relationship with someone ive truely grown to love. We got our first apt together, went through cheating stages, he got deported back to france, i picked up and moved there to be with him(at 18) and no we also have a three month old son. I truely love this person and sometimes dont think i can live without him. but theres other times where i know i should move on. he keeps me in this neutral mindset where i cant go anywhere he threatens his life when i say i want to break up. hes hit me before but i know i provoke his temper sometimes but i still dont think thats right. but without my soni dont think id even think of leaving him but when i look at him i know he deserves better then this. i really dont know what i should do, hence why im asking this on yahooanswers but some good advice could do the thingOpinions/advice on what I should do in my relationship?
Well, it sounds to me that you know the answer. Try to believe in yourself just a little more and you'll know the answer. Nothing justifies a man hitting a woman, and I think that if you leave you'll be happier. You will project that to your child and therefore he will be happy too. If he really wanted to kill himself he would've done it already. Don't fall for that that is what controlling people do. good luck to you and take care of yourself so you can take care of your child. My good wishes are with you.Opinions/advice on what I should do in my relationship?
I would advise to get out of the relationship for your sake and your sons. Even if you do love him it sounds like he is an unhealthy individual and that should not be you or your sons burden to pay. It sounds like you went into the relationship very young and of course you would grow to love someone if you are with them for so long. It is not right for him to hit you at anytime. It really sounds like he needs professional help with a counselor of psychologist. I would leave the relationship and ask him to get help for your sons sake. Maybe down the road after he gets help and takes responsibility you can talk more and possibly work things out but for now I think its in your best interest to take a break from him and see how he does in the meantime. Sometimes when people are away from someone they grew to love, they find themselves and are happy down the road with their decision - as hard as it may have been at the time. Good luck to ya!
You should either leave him or ask him to get counselling because he is a very insecure person and he is emotionally blackmailing you. You should have left him when he cheated on you, but it's not too late even now.





Also, don't say that you provoke his temper, NO ONE DESERVES TO BE HIT, couples get into verbal fights all the time but a man who hits a woman is despisable by all standards.
He's playing games with your head...it's called emotional abuse and when he hits you it's called physical abuse. He's a loser and you need to get out while you still can. Do it for you and your kid.
you need to think what is best for you and your son.


especially your son who has no choice but to be there!!


if he won't get counselling or anger management best to get out,


if it carries on your son will be affected and will grow up with the wrong ideas in the way women should be treated.
For you and your son's safety, leave him!!! A man hit a woman... that's is a NO NO. Would it be nice you have someone massage you, talk soft to you and change deipaper for your son... There is a line no one should cross in the relatinship, that's physical violent! loser hit woman.
have you talked to him about what is going on and if that dosent work take a brake and leave with the baby 4 awhile