Seeking advice on a tough situation involving an office relationship and promotion?

So I've been interning at my work place for about a year now, and have been hoping to transition into a permanent job. The thing is the person who will be responsible for putting the paperwork through and convince corprate to hire me, has been making advances towards me. Despite not being attracted to this person, I ended up caving in and going out with her, becuase based my experience working with her rejection will mean that the job wont happen. At the moment we are at the getting ready to have sex phase of this relationship and it is becoming imposibly hard to continue faking this whole thing. Should I A: Just be strait up with her and look for a new job. or B- Suck it up and hang in there till I land the job then break it off?Seeking advice on a tough situation involving an office relationship and promotion?
C-Never have started this ';relationship'; in the first place.


If you can't get a job off your own merits, never sell your body like you are a prostitute. I don't care if it is a man or woman, attractive or not, in the position of hiring you for a job at a company. You should never stoop so low as to do such things as this. I say once the internship is over, go to her office and tell her no matter how much you wanted the job, you can't put up with such a detestable act as being her boy toy anymore. I would also, write a letter to ';her'; boss and let them know that, in case any good male employees that might have been hired through her, may have been sexually harassed before hand. And then you just describe and tell of the things she was trying to get you to do. It may make you sound like a snitch but I do believe the company as a right to know what type of woman she is.Seeking advice on a tough situation involving an office relationship and promotion?
Women do not make advances unless they were lead on.





You lead her on which is why you guys are at this situation.





Anyway, depending on how deep you have made your emotional connections and no sex has happened yet, anytime is always a good time to climb yourself out of it.





You have sex with her, it could get uncomfortable at some point in the future.





Before deciding on having sex in the workplace, make sure that they are worth losing your job over.