the only thing I'm wondering about is oral sex. I consider it part of normal sexual activity as I believe he does but when he performs it on me which is not very often he always gets very passionate about it. I suppose the question I am posing is he pretending to enjoy it for me or does he just become emotional about it? I really don't even know how to ask him about it. It's pleasurable for me but I don't get an orgasm from it even with gentle instructions. Maybe I should just take it for what it is and let it be. Any advice out there?I'm confused and need some advice. My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship emotionallly and sexually?
you should talk to him about it so he knows how to give u an orgasm through it, guys enjoy giving oral to girls, its the best part sometimes
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need some advice on things to avoid without screwing this potential relationship....any ideas? Theres more..
I met this girl and shes great, I think shes wonderful and I don't wanna screw anything up with her. We've gone as far as her staying over but not going 'all the way.' Usually I dont get butterflies with girls, cause I'm really satisfied with the ones i've been dating lately, but this girl is incredible. Shes beautiful, smart, but shes a little wild, which is good sometimes, but I know she likes me cause she told me, and she likes me to. We are going to a comedy show tomorrow that I invited her to, and I just want some pointers on how I can get this girl to fall for me even harder than she has already, because i've fallen for this girl so hard I can't explain, and I want her to feel the same way, and I know that comes with time, but its just no fun if i'm the only one feeling this way. Any ideas on how to get her to see that I'm totally worth it? I want her as my girlfriend and I haven't told her how I totally feel about her and I'm a little nervous,any ideas?I need some advice on things to avoid without screwing this potential relationship....any ideas? Theres more..
';Let me first say slow down.';! A relationship a good one at that takes time. You can not force or expedite the relation to your speed. Each of us a human beings and especially females you nee to develop a good solid foundation. By all indications sounds like you are on the right road. Before you go to the comedy show, go have a nice dinner somewhere and sit and talk. She sounds like a nice/wild girl for you so have fun and be cool.I need some advice on things to avoid without screwing this potential relationship....any ideas? Theres more..
Buy her roses and/or candy. Chocolate is so cliche so try something cute like goobers, then if she does become yer girlfriend and you are the type to give nicknames it could be a little inside joke between you two. (Calling her goober is pretty cute and if she's like most girls she'll think it's cute too) Also, be yourself. Give her compliments if you actually mean it, like if you think her eyes are beautiful, then tell her! AND GOOD LUCK!!
Be yourself if ur really like this girl she will like that better than u trying to be perfect. Ifu try to hard it will seem forced and she will think u have no chemistry with her.
What, our earlier advice wasn't good enough? Just kidding..be yourself, that's who she fell in like with...don't try too hard to put all of your good qualities out there at once, it will scare her away. Just go with the mood of the date, no pressure, and take it from there.
';Let me first say slow down.';! A relationship a good one at that takes time. You can not force or expedite the relation to your speed. Each of us a human beings and especially females you nee to develop a good solid foundation. By all indications sounds like you are on the right road. Before you go to the comedy show, go have a nice dinner somewhere and sit and talk. She sounds like a nice/wild girl for you so have fun and be cool.I need some advice on things to avoid without screwing this potential relationship....any ideas? Theres more..
Buy her roses and/or candy. Chocolate is so cliche so try something cute like goobers, then if she does become yer girlfriend and you are the type to give nicknames it could be a little inside joke between you two. (Calling her goober is pretty cute and if she's like most girls she'll think it's cute too) Also, be yourself. Give her compliments if you actually mean it, like if you think her eyes are beautiful, then tell her! AND GOOD LUCK!!
Be yourself if ur really like this girl she will like that better than u trying to be perfect. Ifu try to hard it will seem forced and she will think u have no chemistry with her.
What, our earlier advice wasn't good enough? Just kidding..be yourself, that's who she fell in like with...don't try too hard to put all of your good qualities out there at once, it will scare her away. Just go with the mood of the date, no pressure, and take it from there.
How do I help a family member who's in abusive relationship? Or at least give her some helpful advice?
I told my sister on many occasions how I felt about her being with someone like him, but she just doesn't seem to tell him it's over. They do have one daughter together and have been together for 3 yrs. Numerous times he has slap her, and punched her in the face and body anywhere he can hit. And when I told her that's wrong and that she has to get away from him until he can control his temper and anger or at least take a break from each-other, she said well when he hits he doesn't leave any bruises. I said that doesn't make it okay.
At times my sister will also cry out to me and tell me things that he does to her like after they both get into a huge fight he'll turn around and act as though nothing never happen between them and would force her to have sex with him.
This boyfriend of hers stays out all night till the next day blowing all his money on partying, drinking and smoking (weed) and brings home condoms, and said that they he was holding it for a friend of his. I feel like he's taken advantage of my sister, I also feels that she can get away from him if she wanted to he lives in my mother's boyfriend's house. All she would have to do is lock all the doors on him get a restraining order ,this should be easy since his name is not on the lease.
He has also made sexual remarks towards me I never told her this cause I feel if she hasn't left him already over all the BS he has done to her what difference would I make if I told her that.
I don't know what to do or how to handle it's like nobody in that house even does anything but drink, my mom or brothers doesn't stick up for at all, she said my mom recently saw them going at it (fighting) and all my mom said was to just keep it down that her boyfriend has to wake up in a few hours for work.
How can I mind my business when she keeps telling me things and it get me upset and when I do confront her boyfriend about it my sis just stick up for him, it makes me feel like I'm the crazy one.
Should I just stay out of things when she tells me? Or should I get her help would I be doing the right thing? Need advices please I'm very concerned, thanks in advance...........How do I help a family member who's in abusive relationship? Or at least give her some helpful advice?
she wont leave til she is ready, she needs you to show her proof, i been there, and i almost died, and my son.How do I help a family member who's in abusive relationship? Or at least give her some helpful advice?
Next time she comes with a different bruise, call the cops or the abusive hot line.
I know that you really want to help your sister to get out of this situation, but your sister has to want to help herself. She might have to hit rock bottom (Lord forbid that he doesn't kill her). Do continue to be there for your sister. I wouldn't confront him again about anything. I know that this is your sister and you want to save her, but just step back. You might have to dish out ';tough love.';
unfortunately there is nothing you can do until your sissy is ready to do it herself.. if anything goes on with the kids you can call CPS or if your sissy has visual bruises maybe you can call the cops as a concerned family member.. your bothers on the other hand are PU$$y's.... good luck to your sissy.. thank god you are there for her..help blackheads
At times my sister will also cry out to me and tell me things that he does to her like after they both get into a huge fight he'll turn around and act as though nothing never happen between them and would force her to have sex with him.
This boyfriend of hers stays out all night till the next day blowing all his money on partying, drinking and smoking (weed) and brings home condoms, and said that they he was holding it for a friend of his. I feel like he's taken advantage of my sister, I also feels that she can get away from him if she wanted to he lives in my mother's boyfriend's house. All she would have to do is lock all the doors on him get a restraining order ,this should be easy since his name is not on the lease.
He has also made sexual remarks towards me I never told her this cause I feel if she hasn't left him already over all the BS he has done to her what difference would I make if I told her that.
I don't know what to do or how to handle it's like nobody in that house even does anything but drink, my mom or brothers doesn't stick up for at all, she said my mom recently saw them going at it (fighting) and all my mom said was to just keep it down that her boyfriend has to wake up in a few hours for work.
How can I mind my business when she keeps telling me things and it get me upset and when I do confront her boyfriend about it my sis just stick up for him, it makes me feel like I'm the crazy one.
Should I just stay out of things when she tells me? Or should I get her help would I be doing the right thing? Need advices please I'm very concerned, thanks in advance...........How do I help a family member who's in abusive relationship? Or at least give her some helpful advice?
she wont leave til she is ready, she needs you to show her proof, i been there, and i almost died, and my son.How do I help a family member who's in abusive relationship? Or at least give her some helpful advice?
Next time she comes with a different bruise, call the cops or the abusive hot line.
I know that you really want to help your sister to get out of this situation, but your sister has to want to help herself. She might have to hit rock bottom (Lord forbid that he doesn't kill her). Do continue to be there for your sister. I wouldn't confront him again about anything. I know that this is your sister and you want to save her, but just step back. You might have to dish out ';tough love.';
unfortunately there is nothing you can do until your sissy is ready to do it herself.. if anything goes on with the kids you can call CPS or if your sissy has visual bruises maybe you can call the cops as a concerned family member.. your bothers on the other hand are PU$$y's.... good luck to your sissy.. thank god you are there for her..
I need general tips and advice on relationships?
Its for homework so please keep it clean. answers be realistic Thanks.I need general tips and advice on relationships?
if the two people get along a relationship can be the most wonderful thing, but there will be ups and downs but if two people really love each other ,they will forgive each other for almost any thing .but if they can't forgive they may choose to go there separate waysI need general tips and advice on relationships?
Always keep the lines of communication open and always take time out for each other.
Always talk. Always listen. Always hear. Always care.
Whats the question?
if the two people get along a relationship can be the most wonderful thing, but there will be ups and downs but if two people really love each other ,they will forgive each other for almost any thing .but if they can't forgive they may choose to go there separate waysI need general tips and advice on relationships?
Always keep the lines of communication open and always take time out for each other.
Always talk. Always listen. Always hear. Always care.
Whats the question?
I have been talking to this guy that I want a relationship with but hes leaving to the navy.. advice please???
Me and him have been talking for 3 months now and he just left to bootcamp a week ago and is coming back in 2 months but before he gets shipped out I really want us to be official so I can atleast have something while hes gone but I dont want to force it I already asked him before he left about us but all he can say is just let things happen dont force it.. i am not trying to but i need to know am i waiting for nothing.. i know he cares about me and i really want us to work what should i dO? what can i say to him before he leaves?? because I honestly think im falling in love with him and i dont want to lose the best thing that has ever happen to my life..I have been talking to this guy that I want a relationship with but hes leaving to the navy.. advice please???
''yuo cant say that the best thing that happend in ur life is to be in love with this boy''........
so. . . . .
you can tell him that you are getting in love with him, %26amp; as he is gone to the navy it will be a chanse to you '' to think '' to see if you are going to miss him!!!.....
''yuo cant say that the best thing that happend in ur life is to be in love with this boy''........
so. . . . .
you can tell him that you are getting in love with him, %26amp; as he is gone to the navy it will be a chanse to you '' to think '' to see if you are going to miss him!!!.....
My twin brother wants to be white and it tears our relationship apart, we are always at eachother! any advice?
Hi im Sean a 17 year old bi-racial male , part black part white. I have a twin brother Cheyenne who is also mixed but we dont look exactly alike. I was the one born with mainly white features blonde hair blue eyes and physical traits that allow me to pass for fully white like Nicole Richie or Mariah Carey. Now my brother Cheyenne he looks somewhat inbetween and by looking at him you would think he's just a african american boy with good hair and maybe a little bit light like President obama but maybe a bit lighter. Our father died in iraq and our mother is a very strong African American women with a sense of humor so she makes nothing of it at times but for me I get annoyed. My brother straightens his hair like how you would see some white teen in a magazine for example Joe Jonas , when I have the type of hair for that look but I dont go for it I keep a close ceasar cut which is more masculent to me. I have more black friends than he does, He barely even dates black girls and I do because I date every race. He now is in this phase where he thinks he looks like Edward Cullen and girls actully adore my brother but I think his appearance is false and stupid. I appriciate things that he should like our heritage because we are in the middle of two races that barely get along and I try not to pick sides. One time we fought so bad that we were both hospitalized after he called my little sister the ';N'; word. I got angry in the hospital telling him that i am what he wants to be.In reaction to that he called me Hitler breaking us into another fight in the waiting room. Help I feel like I somewhat hate this kid. LMfao but its true.My twin brother wants to be white and it tears our relationship apart, we are always at eachother! any advice?
Much ado about nothing.
Can't believe it's so important to either of you.
Just be the best person you can be, whatever your skin color.My twin brother wants to be white and it tears our relationship apart, we are always at eachother! any advice?
If he wants to act/look like a white person then let him (as long as he doesn't have all those cosmetic surgeries that could make him white). It shouldn't break your relationship apart. So what that he wants to straighten his hair or date girls from different cultures? (I know a black co-worker who wants to date blonde-haired, blue/green-eyed white girls; he just prefers them to other girls, and so does your bro). It's called diversity; individuality. I'm not trying to be mean, but seriously, he can be/act however he wants to (as long as it's not in a bad way). Don't hate your own brother; accept him for who he is. Not everyone has to have the same taste/feel for everything, you know . . .
In the Mexican culture, race is not a big thing. You are human first. Color is no biggie. It seems rare that you would fight, being that you are brothers. Is it because you feel superior to him, or that he feels inferior to you, or what? Let each one of you be what you want to be. You are mesclado or mestizo like most Mexicans. Go to Mexico and no one will care. Cut the cr*p pretending. You both seem to have race issues. Be human and stop playing the old Slavery game of I am whiter than you game. It is sad. Love yourselves as you are and love each other. Life is really short. Remember you carry the genes of your anscestors. Your kids will all show your African and Caucasian heritage to varing degrees. WHO CARES!! It was a slave owner's game.
Much ado about nothing.
Can't believe it's so important to either of you.
Just be the best person you can be, whatever your skin color.My twin brother wants to be white and it tears our relationship apart, we are always at eachother! any advice?
If he wants to act/look like a white person then let him (as long as he doesn't have all those cosmetic surgeries that could make him white). It shouldn't break your relationship apart. So what that he wants to straighten his hair or date girls from different cultures? (I know a black co-worker who wants to date blonde-haired, blue/green-eyed white girls; he just prefers them to other girls, and so does your bro). It's called diversity; individuality. I'm not trying to be mean, but seriously, he can be/act however he wants to (as long as it's not in a bad way). Don't hate your own brother; accept him for who he is. Not everyone has to have the same taste/feel for everything, you know . . .
In the Mexican culture, race is not a big thing. You are human first. Color is no biggie. It seems rare that you would fight, being that you are brothers. Is it because you feel superior to him, or that he feels inferior to you, or what? Let each one of you be what you want to be. You are mesclado or mestizo like most Mexicans. Go to Mexico and no one will care. Cut the cr*p pretending. You both seem to have race issues. Be human and stop playing the old Slavery game of I am whiter than you game. It is sad. Love yourselves as you are and love each other. Life is really short. Remember you carry the genes of your anscestors. Your kids will all show your African and Caucasian heritage to varing degrees. WHO CARES!! It was a slave owner's game.
Straight gal in relationship with pre-op F2M trans. Any others? Any advice?
Recently met the man of my dreams who still has the body of a woman. I'm still married and he's coming off a very bad breakup with a femme who could not accept the transition. We are both on new ground with this relationship. Any help, advice, suggestions or knowledge from others in similar situations would be appreciated. I would especially like to know how other straight gals have dealt with realizing they are falling for a trans and suddenly being identified by others as lesbian even though they identify straight. My man is a man but he still looks like a woman!Straight gal in relationship with pre-op F2M trans. Any others? Any advice?
Dear Shamrock,
It's not easy is it?
Thank you for being open minded enough to realize a trans-man is a person, and capable of loving and being loved. Many people are , for whatever reasons, not capable of making that leap.
This is going to be a NEW realm you are entering. The world YOU are entering didn't even exist 75 yrs ago. Many religious dogma hasn't had time to deal with this ';brave new world';
If you need someone to talk with you can try PFLAG www.pflag.org Or you can msg me. on Yahoo IM
Hugs,
PennyAnnStraight gal in relationship with pre-op F2M trans. Any others? Any advice?
If you really love him, then support him in his transistion. hopefully he is on testosterone and he will look more manly as time goes on.
I am glad to see you are open enough to be in this relationship, even though he doesn't pass well as a man.
And for the time being, screw what other people think... theyll see it on the street then forget about it...
for example.. people see me holding hands with my same aged sister... they probably think im a lesbian, but im not! hehehe. then they forget about it.
but if this is a long term thing with this guy, youll see changes and it will get better.
If you love this person as a man, then you will probably learn to accept it. It's a tough situation, maybe you should talk to your partner about this.
Nice of you to accept him. Don't worry about how he looks for now - assuming that he isn't on T but plans to be, his appearance will be masculinizing pretty quickly. This means body/facial hair, a more masculine body, a deeper voice, etc. You might want to pick up some books on the subject of FtMs so you can understand his problems a bit more. I'd recommend Jamison Green's Becoming A Visible Man.
Good luck.
You're married. i suggest if you want to do anythig about it you get a divorce before braking someones heart
OMG,is this true.I simply admire you.
I lost mine after 21 years who could not accept it,and here you are.Love this person,she is or will go through alot.Sounds like you 2 have alot in common.
Advise?.Love,care,accept,follow your heart.It may prove helpful if you research transgender.Remember identity does not reflect orientation.Live your life to it's fullest and find true happiness.
happy trails
he was born in wrong body. so what?
people will obviously be confused by your relationship, but don't worry about it, all that matters is that you know your love is real. its a tricky situation, but not really, if people would just accept you and he for who you are.
good luck.
Dear Shamrock,
It's not easy is it?
Thank you for being open minded enough to realize a trans-man is a person, and capable of loving and being loved. Many people are , for whatever reasons, not capable of making that leap.
This is going to be a NEW realm you are entering. The world YOU are entering didn't even exist 75 yrs ago. Many religious dogma hasn't had time to deal with this ';brave new world';
If you need someone to talk with you can try PFLAG www.pflag.org Or you can msg me. on Yahoo IM
Hugs,
PennyAnnStraight gal in relationship with pre-op F2M trans. Any others? Any advice?
If you really love him, then support him in his transistion. hopefully he is on testosterone and he will look more manly as time goes on.
I am glad to see you are open enough to be in this relationship, even though he doesn't pass well as a man.
And for the time being, screw what other people think... theyll see it on the street then forget about it...
for example.. people see me holding hands with my same aged sister... they probably think im a lesbian, but im not! hehehe. then they forget about it.
but if this is a long term thing with this guy, youll see changes and it will get better.
If you love this person as a man, then you will probably learn to accept it. It's a tough situation, maybe you should talk to your partner about this.
Nice of you to accept him. Don't worry about how he looks for now - assuming that he isn't on T but plans to be, his appearance will be masculinizing pretty quickly. This means body/facial hair, a more masculine body, a deeper voice, etc. You might want to pick up some books on the subject of FtMs so you can understand his problems a bit more. I'd recommend Jamison Green's Becoming A Visible Man.
Good luck.
You're married. i suggest if you want to do anythig about it you get a divorce before braking someones heart
OMG,is this true.I simply admire you.
I lost mine after 21 years who could not accept it,and here you are.Love this person,she is or will go through alot.Sounds like you 2 have alot in common.
Advise?.Love,care,accept,follow your heart.It may prove helpful if you research transgender.Remember identity does not reflect orientation.Live your life to it's fullest and find true happiness.
happy trails
he was born in wrong body. so what?
people will obviously be confused by your relationship, but don't worry about it, all that matters is that you know your love is real. its a tricky situation, but not really, if people would just accept you and he for who you are.
good luck.
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